My dad also makes inappropriate comments about my appearance. He also likes to tell me (usually in public, no less) about the sex he has with my mom. However, the big kicker (and my mom doesn't know) is that he actually did molest me once when I was 8. Since then, I've looked at these kind of comments directed at kids as a kind of red flag. These comments are disguised as compliments but it really feels like they are not because now when he says these things, it's obvious how uncomfortable it makes me, but he thinks my discomfort is hilarious and it means that I am weak (and just to clarify, these are not comments like "oh you look really pretty today" or something - it's more like "you have really big tits and I like they way they look in that dress" or "I think that waiter wants to f*ck you" also said so that the waiter can hear, etc).
So, it might be common, but I don't think it's normal. Good luck figuring out how you want to handle this!! I'm still working on that myself.
"I think that waiter wants to f*ck you"
It was okay until this came up. Okayyy who people want to fuck or not is not up for him to decide. He meant it in a good way but it wasn’t very appropriate.
IIN that my dad makes comments about my body & makes me uncomfortable?
← View full post
My dad also makes inappropriate comments about my appearance. He also likes to tell me (usually in public, no less) about the sex he has with my mom. However, the big kicker (and my mom doesn't know) is that he actually did molest me once when I was 8. Since then, I've looked at these kind of comments directed at kids as a kind of red flag. These comments are disguised as compliments but it really feels like they are not because now when he says these things, it's obvious how uncomfortable it makes me, but he thinks my discomfort is hilarious and it means that I am weak (and just to clarify, these are not comments like "oh you look really pretty today" or something - it's more like "you have really big tits and I like they way they look in that dress" or "I think that waiter wants to f*ck you" also said so that the waiter can hear, etc).
So, it might be common, but I don't think it's normal. Good luck figuring out how you want to handle this!! I'm still working on that myself.
--
lakskfkgkgk
4 years ago
|
pl
Comment Hidden (
show
)
Report
0
0
"I think that waiter wants to f*ck you"
It was okay until this came up. Okayyy who people want to fuck or not is not up for him to decide. He meant it in a good way but it wasn’t very appropriate.