Ok, you don't recall him sexually abusing you. He's never raped you. He's had anger issues when you were younger, probably when things were very stressful. I'm not saying spanking is any kind of good, but it's not unheard of in any way.
There's a lot of neo feminist rhetoric going on lately that has unfortunately made many women turn themselves into unnecessary victims. My mother used to say I looked good in that shirt, handsome, dashing ect. I never took it as her coming on to me. I took at as her trying to build up my confidence, because you know, college can be stressful. Even demoralizing.
You should know your father better than anyone here. But be conscious of what you are reading and listening to lately. Think clairvoyantly and calmly about your father and his history and decide your actions based on that, not grasping at threads like you seem to be doing right now.
And WTF is "neo feminist rhetoric"? Women empowering other women to speak out and change their lives for the better? It's not turning anyone into a victim to support them in becoming more aware and self-aware.
Her FEELINGS are what's important here - she sounds sensible and thoughtful, not is she "grasping at threads", whatever TF that means.
If you knew anything you'd know that child sexual abuse was just not acknowledged or talked about as the widespread issue we now know it to be, until Women's Liberationists raised the issue in the 70's, mainly because Freud decided the women patients he'd initially totally believed must've been lying about their abusive fathers, because his mates wouldn't have done that to their daughters, would they?
IIN that my dad makes comments about my body & makes me uncomfortable?
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Ok, you don't recall him sexually abusing you. He's never raped you. He's had anger issues when you were younger, probably when things were very stressful. I'm not saying spanking is any kind of good, but it's not unheard of in any way.
There's a lot of neo feminist rhetoric going on lately that has unfortunately made many women turn themselves into unnecessary victims. My mother used to say I looked good in that shirt, handsome, dashing ect. I never took it as her coming on to me. I took at as her trying to build up my confidence, because you know, college can be stressful. Even demoralizing.
You should know your father better than anyone here. But be conscious of what you are reading and listening to lately. Think clairvoyantly and calmly about your father and his history and decide your actions based on that, not grasping at threads like you seem to be doing right now.
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Think clairvoyantly? WTF does that mean?
And WTF is "neo feminist rhetoric"? Women empowering other women to speak out and change their lives for the better? It's not turning anyone into a victim to support them in becoming more aware and self-aware.
Her FEELINGS are what's important here - she sounds sensible and thoughtful, not is she "grasping at threads", whatever TF that means.
If you knew anything you'd know that child sexual abuse was just not acknowledged or talked about as the widespread issue we now know it to be, until Women's Liberationists raised the issue in the 70's, mainly because Freud decided the women patients he'd initially totally believed must've been lying about their abusive fathers, because his mates wouldn't have done that to their daughters, would they?
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You're either a troll or retarded and honestly I can't be bothered to explain all the mistakes in your answer. Fuck off and waste someone else time.