Is it normal that my dad is "friends" with a girl that has a husband

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Okay...So my dad is divorced for like a month right and he get a girl friend just a friend he says but idk is it normal for him to hang out with her at 12:00 at night a drink note that he gets really different when he drinks like he goes from caring to just un-caring oh and get this his girl friend just a friend is my older sisters boyfriends mom isn't that messed up is it weird that i sorta wanna hurt my self just to make him payattenion to me instead of his friend? :'(

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  • remaerdhturt
    11 years ago | pl

    It may be normal for him to have a friend who is married in today's society but that doesn't make it right especially if they are out late drinking and her husband isn't there.

    Big problem is you haven't provided enough information. Recently divorced? If so then he's still getting over it and so are you. You need to talk to him. Not challenge him, "talk to him" and let him know how you feel no matter how scare you are to do so.

    When I wss in the middle of my divorce I met a woman who had a boyfriend. While not planned we started dating and it was wrong in multiple ways. The most important one was that I was not there for my kids who needed me because I was too involved in myself and my problems and emotions that go with a divorce even though I knew it was wrong. I broke up with her after @ 6 months but you can't get time lost back. It helped me with my divorce but not my kids.

    Talk to your dad. Don't attack his actions, just tell him you need him.

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  • allyssa7899
    12 years ago | pl

    Instead of hurting yourself to get his attention try talking to him about it, but don't beat a round the bush about it come right out and say it

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  • hnbout
    12 years ago | pl

    Your dad is lonely. It is perfectly NORMAL for him to want companionship... especially with a woman. If they are friends, thats fine; if they are friends-with-benifits, that's ok too; and if they are lovers, then its a good sign that he is ready for another relationship.

    If you are threatened by his "friend", talk to him about it... be honest, but not accusing him of anything.

    If you need his attention, then start wearing skimpy, provocative outfits around him... showing off your body. Ask him to hang out with you... and perhaps flirt with him. If he is lonely, then you could maybe fill his void for companionship... and he could fill yours too.

    Don't be afriad to speak your true feelings to your dad.... a Dad/Daughter relationship is a beautiful thing. GOOD LUCK... and Go For It!

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