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My dad seems to have some gay tendencies. He has a girlfriend who is pretty masculine in psychical characteristics. He says thinks like “i’m gonna beat your ass” and more that sound gay. He has a feminine personality, but he hates gay people.
Nothing you've described has anything to do with him being gay: stop worrying about it and mind your own business
Lots of people say things like, "I'm gonna beat your ass", but my mom always preferred to say, "I'm gonna get the belt".
In my opinion, people who claim to hate gay people are actually gay and are ashamed of themselves so they pretend to be the exact opposite of gay. They try to “act straight” and hate the gay community. Or they are just close minded and ignorant (no offense)
However, liking masculine women doesn’t mean he’s gay.
He could also be metrosexual
Possibly, or I think some of them aren't actually gay but are just so repressed and terrified of the concept that they've never explored their sexuality and don't even understand how they really feel. So then they meet a gay guy, immediately imagine him in a sexual scenario and make themselves very uncomfortable and start lashing out.
Nothing wrong with having "gay tendencies" nor in being gay! He may just be bisexual, no big deal!
Maybe he's trying to fight off and deny the gayness by being homophobic? I doubt it though.
None of this seems particularly gay. "I'm gonna beat your ass," should only be misconstrued as gay by someone who's purposefully being a smartass.
whether someone is part of a group and if they like said group or not are not always connected.
Anyways it is highly doubtful that your dad is gay cause if he dates someone who has a vagina, well there you go.
Some gay people do not like gay community because a lot of them just act weird. I am in the LGBT myself but not real fond of the "community" in general. Yet, my best friend at work is gay. I think more cause he acts like an 18 year old kid which is refreshing cause usually people over 50 are stuffy and boring.