It is somewhat normal.
Your Dad is basically taking you for granted, you are his special and real daughter, but he feels he must make allowances and be a little more sensitive to the other 'foster teenage girls', because basically, they could leave if told off!
You, on the other hand, are family. And therefore expected to put up with and make allowances yourself (still in his mind)
You need to tell him (or even show him your post here) that treating you this way is wrong. If anything your Dad SHOULD be treating you better than anyone, and 'expect' the foster children should understand. Of which they will.
Ask your Dad truthfully if you are still the single most important child in his life. Then tell him you don't feel like it. Ideally you should both spend some Dad daughter time together (only) on a regular basis (ie either an hour a day, or a whole day once a week, or both!)
Is it normal that my dad does this?
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It is somewhat normal.
Your Dad is basically taking you for granted, you are his special and real daughter, but he feels he must make allowances and be a little more sensitive to the other 'foster teenage girls', because basically, they could leave if told off!
You, on the other hand, are family. And therefore expected to put up with and make allowances yourself (still in his mind)
You need to tell him (or even show him your post here) that treating you this way is wrong. If anything your Dad SHOULD be treating you better than anyone, and 'expect' the foster children should understand. Of which they will.
Ask your Dad truthfully if you are still the single most important child in his life. Then tell him you don't feel like it. Ideally you should both spend some Dad daughter time together (only) on a regular basis (ie either an hour a day, or a whole day once a week, or both!)