I'll say this: relationships are never 50-50. There will always be one partner who is higher value, who doesn't text as often, who is more attractive or has more prospective other partners. For the sake of the relationship, it's healthier if the guy is in that position.
There used to be a saying that women married up and men married down. Women are only attracted to men whose attention and commitment is worth more than theirs.
You seem to have misinterpreted some of my points. If you're a girl, continue as you were. But if you're a guy, I recommend you read "No More Mr. Nice Guy" sooner rather than later.
Relationship dynamics between men and women have existed since the start of time. Don't be ignorant of them.
Is it normal that my boyfriend "wouldn't mind" being with me
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A good response on his part. Makes sure his commitment isn't guaranteed, and you'll end up working on the relationship harder because of it.
Another way of putting it: if a girl gets too secured in a relationship, she gets bored and finds a reason to leave.
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not true, what kind of response is that?
thats like saying a guy will cheat in a relationship because hes horny and you gotta supply his dick daily with the vagina lol
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You do have to keep him happy in bed.
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only because some guys think a relationship is just about sex
not all guys are like this
and indeed a relationship should not just be about sex
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True but sex is important and if either party is not sexually fullfilled the relationship is ultimately doomed to failure.
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i dont care about sex
love is the most important
or staying black XDD
once again, sex is not the main focus
Guy wants sex, girl wants commitment/attention. It's in the guy's interest to make his commitment scare and therefore more valuable.
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a relationship is supposed to be about both people
you could say its in the girls interest to never give the guy sex
and make him wait
no. it doesnt work like that. both people are not supposed to have manipulative motives
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I'll say this: relationships are never 50-50. There will always be one partner who is higher value, who doesn't text as often, who is more attractive or has more prospective other partners. For the sake of the relationship, it's healthier if the guy is in that position.
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most girls are caring and loving
but of course they want more than just sex
which makes perfect sense
dont let your bad experiences in the past affect your judgement for every single girl
what if the other person doesnt care how much they text
a relationship is in the eyes of the individual
if both people are satisfied and happy, thats all that matters
your mind is fucked up. go fuck off you sack of shit
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Wow why go from a civilized argument to sack of shit, run out of ideas or something? Poster is right, in my opinion and experience.
You seem to have misinterpreted some of my points. If you're a girl, continue as you were. But if you're a guy, I recommend you read "No More Mr. Nice Guy" sooner rather than later.
Relationship dynamics between men and women have existed since the start of time. Don't be ignorant of them.