Is it normal that my boyfriend "wouldn't mind" being with me

I was talking to my boyfriend, we've been together for about a year. I asked if he wanted us to end up getting married, lasting forever, etc. He said "I'm not opposed to it." I feel like that shows he doesn't really care about the relationship, but idk if it's just normal

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  • satanniggasandpopsicle

    no it just sounds like he hasnt made up his mind yet, and he doesnt want to rush things

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  • accessmemorex

    LoL... Guys call it playing the game and do it to keep women interested. What you have to do is find out what he really thinks.

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  • yesnomaybeso

    How old are you?

    I mean... you've been together for very little ,maybe he freaked out.

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  • Tealights

    My boyfriend did the same thing. I had to learn that men have their own way of speaking; and I can tell you now that his answer is a maybe.

    Just be happy he actually said that, and not the typical, "I don't know...," shit most guys give (had exes that said this to just about any question.... A LOT!). Overtime his answer will change the more he becomes attached to you (don't give him a time limit though), and realize that you're the real deal. Don't pressure him, and just give him time; enjoy the relationship, there's no rush.

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  • bidicksucker69

    I have always been very good at it and have been dick whipped by every boyfriend I've ever had. I've always found sucking dick addicting and can never get enough. When I was 13 and met my boyfriend he had me so dickwhipped within just a couple of weeks that I did everything hed tell me to just to keep his dick in my mouth id suck his dick 3 or 4 or 5 times a day for anywhere from an hour to an hour and a half up to for or 5 hours at a time when we would spend the night together Hed let me suck his dick the whole night and loved it he loved me sucking his dick and put his dick in my.mouth as often as he could and for as long as he could he loved watching porn while I sucked his Big Hard Dick he has always loved watching me suck other boys dicks and loves watching me get fucked in my tight wet young teen pussy I'm 18 now me and my boyfriend are still together and still in love we are thinking about doing some porn to make some extra money as an excuse to suck big dicks have pussy parties with other hot young teen girls

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    • satanniggasandpopsicle

      fake

      nice try

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  • bidicksucker69

    I love when my boyfriends wanna be with me and love when they are willing to share me with other guys and I love bisexual boys it makes me so wet to watch my boyfriends suck each others dicks and I love having a Dick in my mouth and a Dick in my pussy at the same time every now and then and as often as I can I love sucking Big Dick it has always been my favorite thing to do I started when I was 9 or 10 have always bddm

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  • bubsy

    A good response on his part. Makes sure his commitment isn't guaranteed, and you'll end up working on the relationship harder because of it.

    Another way of putting it: if a girl gets too secured in a relationship, she gets bored and finds a reason to leave.

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    • satanniggasandpopsicle

      not true, what kind of response is that?

      thats like saying a guy will cheat in a relationship because hes horny and you gotta supply his dick daily with the vagina lol

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      • nikkiclaire

        You do have to keep him happy in bed.

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        • satanniggasandpopsicle

          only because some guys think a relationship is just about sex

          not all guys are like this

          and indeed a relationship should not just be about sex

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          • nikkiclaire

            True but sex is important and if either party is not sexually fullfilled the relationship is ultimately doomed to failure.

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            • satanniggasandpopsicle

              i dont care about sex

              love is the most important

              or staying black XDD

              once again, sex is not the main focus

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      • bubsy

        Guy wants sex, girl wants commitment/attention. It's in the guy's interest to make his commitment scare and therefore more valuable.

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        • satanniggasandpopsicle

          a relationship is supposed to be about both people

          you could say its in the girls interest to never give the guy sex

          and make him wait

          no. it doesnt work like that. both people are not supposed to have manipulative motives

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          • bubsy

            I'll say this: relationships are never 50-50. There will always be one partner who is higher value, who doesn't text as often, who is more attractive or has more prospective other partners. For the sake of the relationship, it's healthier if the guy is in that position.

            There used to be a saying that women married up and men married down. Women are only attracted to men whose attention and commitment is worth more than theirs.

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            • satanniggasandpopsicle

              most girls are caring and loving

              but of course they want more than just sex

              which makes perfect sense

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            • satanniggasandpopsicle

              dont let your bad experiences in the past affect your judgement for every single girl

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            • satanniggasandpopsicle

              what if the other person doesnt care how much they text

              a relationship is in the eyes of the individual

              if both people are satisfied and happy, thats all that matters

              your mind is fucked up. go fuck off you sack of shit

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