momonator, yeah at the moment it does hurt but 3 weeks ago it was perfectly fine as it have been the last 8 months. It's first now where he is going through the depression that he pushes me away.
Babe7575, you are probably right when you say I shouldn't try to figure him out. And maybe he doesn't consider my feelings atm but as said above 3 weeks ago it was fine. Right now he has just turned into someone who seem not to care about anything. And yes one of my friends has told me to just keep a distance and focus on myself until my bf turns to me (as he hopefully will :x)
Aussiewolf, thank you so much your kind words really calmed me somewhat. I actually dealt with a depression some years ago myself so I know what it is like. And thats why I'm trying to pull back now cause we all deal with it differently at the time being, like you, I had a boyfriend back then helping me through it too. Thus' im trying to help my bf now. But, maybe he is just different in that way. He often likes to tackle problems himself.
Elliegirl, thank you and you are right it's also what some friend has told me. That I might be too clingy at the moment which I discovered myself too. And I do it of course from the best intentions but I have to just stop it. Cause if it was me I guess I would feel the same. Thank and yes it helped.
Is it normal that my boyfriend wont 'open up' to me?
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First. THANK YOU all for replying <3
momonator, yeah at the moment it does hurt but 3 weeks ago it was perfectly fine as it have been the last 8 months. It's first now where he is going through the depression that he pushes me away.
Babe7575, you are probably right when you say I shouldn't try to figure him out. And maybe he doesn't consider my feelings atm but as said above 3 weeks ago it was fine. Right now he has just turned into someone who seem not to care about anything. And yes one of my friends has told me to just keep a distance and focus on myself until my bf turns to me (as he hopefully will :x)
Aussiewolf, thank you so much your kind words really calmed me somewhat. I actually dealt with a depression some years ago myself so I know what it is like. And thats why I'm trying to pull back now cause we all deal with it differently at the time being, like you, I had a boyfriend back then helping me through it too. Thus' im trying to help my bf now. But, maybe he is just different in that way. He often likes to tackle problems himself.
Elliegirl, thank you and you are right it's also what some friend has told me. That I might be too clingy at the moment which I discovered myself too. And I do it of course from the best intentions but I have to just stop it. Cause if it was me I guess I would feel the same. Thank and yes it helped.
xo, sugarcoateddoll