It doesn't sound as if he knows or cares why he behaves like this, so I'd stop banging my head on that particular brick wall if I were you. What does he say when you ask him why?
Have you tried the old non-judgmental approach? IE: When you ............ I feel ............. and I would prefer it if you ............. and then sit back and see how he responds. Works sometimes, but no guarantees, I'm sorry to say, and more likely to give you positive results than either keeping silent or criticising his behavior (you can do the latter in your head!)
IIN that my boyfriend will never come to any social event with me?
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It doesn't sound as if he knows or cares why he behaves like this, so I'd stop banging my head on that particular brick wall if I were you. What does he say when you ask him why?
Have you tried the old non-judgmental approach? IE: When you ............ I feel ............. and I would prefer it if you ............. and then sit back and see how he responds. Works sometimes, but no guarantees, I'm sorry to say, and more likely to give you positive results than either keeping silent or criticising his behavior (you can do the latter in your head!)