You picked up so I don't you can now expect him to be a socialite. But from your side it sounds like he isn't making any effort. It's important to you, and that should be important enough for him to make an effort, or at least be bold enough to take a stance, the fence straddling is the real issue. Whatever his reason is for not wanting to come, be it social anxiety, or what have you, you owe to him to help him overcome that, he owes it to you to put in a good effort.
We've talked about this so many times, and so many times he has promised he will "come to the next one".
I just had a small family tea and he said he would come, then that he wouldn't. When he finally decided to come it was late so he was going to bring some dessert so as to not feel so ashamed of being late. He even came to my block but didn't find anything to bring in the shops nearby, so he just went back home....
Sometimes I wonder is it's just THAT scary for him. He doesn't seem to be that shy. He's actually good at meeting new people 'cause he knows what to ask people to sound interested and be kind. I think most people find him very likeable.
I don't know what makes him so nervous.
I didn't find any spelling errors but I guess you omitted the word "him" at the beginning... anyway, this is not my primary language so I'm just doing what I can. I apologize in advance for my errors :)
IIN that my boyfriend will never come to any social event with me?
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You picked up so I don't you can now expect him to be a socialite. But from your side it sounds like he isn't making any effort. It's important to you, and that should be important enough for him to make an effort, or at least be bold enough to take a stance, the fence straddling is the real issue. Whatever his reason is for not wanting to come, be it social anxiety, or what have you, you owe to him to help him overcome that, he owes it to you to put in a good effort.
I think you guys are due for talk.
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We've talked about this so many times, and so many times he has promised he will "come to the next one".
I just had a small family tea and he said he would come, then that he wouldn't. When he finally decided to come it was late so he was going to bring some dessert so as to not feel so ashamed of being late. He even came to my block but didn't find anything to bring in the shops nearby, so he just went back home....
Sometimes I wonder is it's just THAT scary for him. He doesn't seem to be that shy. He's actually good at meeting new people 'cause he knows what to ask people to sound interested and be kind. I think most people find him very likeable.
I don't know what makes him so nervous.
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I didn't find any spelling errors but I guess you omitted the word "him" at the beginning... anyway, this is not my primary language so I'm just doing what I can. I apologize in advance for my errors :)