He could just have a porn addiction. Doesn't necessarily mean that you did something wrong. To me, as a guy, it sounds like he needs space but doesn't know how to ask for it. Porn can be a medium between intimacy and sexuality for someone in that it is a safe place. I think you should not try so hard to fulfill or please him. Don't put pressure on him and just be with him in a way that always let's him know he can be comfortable around you. Some guys like myself have a hard time opening up and need it to feel safe. It's hard to give much more feedback without more details. This is all assuming that when you say open relationship you mean you have open communication and not "we are in an open relationship".
Is it normal that my boyfriend watches porn after we have sex?
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He could just have a porn addiction. Doesn't necessarily mean that you did something wrong. To me, as a guy, it sounds like he needs space but doesn't know how to ask for it. Porn can be a medium between intimacy and sexuality for someone in that it is a safe place. I think you should not try so hard to fulfill or please him. Don't put pressure on him and just be with him in a way that always let's him know he can be comfortable around you. Some guys like myself have a hard time opening up and need it to feel safe. It's hard to give much more feedback without more details. This is all assuming that when you say open relationship you mean you have open communication and not "we are in an open relationship".