Sex is only sex. For instance, a man can like putting things in his rectum without being gay. I genuinely believe the same thing about certain sexual activities which include the same sex. I think a lot of people who think they are bi are actually straight people who just fantasise about one activity or other.
Being gay is about being attracted to the whole person, kissing them, wanting to be with them, loving them. I'll guarantee your boyfriend would say he could never be in love with another man. But there's one thing that turns him on, and he can only get it from a man's body. It's that one thing he wants, not the man as a whole. That's why he doesn't want to kiss a man or cuddle or anything else like that.
Is it normal that my boyfriend wants to give head?
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Sex is only sex. For instance, a man can like putting things in his rectum without being gay. I genuinely believe the same thing about certain sexual activities which include the same sex. I think a lot of people who think they are bi are actually straight people who just fantasise about one activity or other.
Being gay is about being attracted to the whole person, kissing them, wanting to be with them, loving them. I'll guarantee your boyfriend would say he could never be in love with another man. But there's one thing that turns him on, and he can only get it from a man's body. It's that one thing he wants, not the man as a whole. That's why he doesn't want to kiss a man or cuddle or anything else like that.