Is it normal that my boyfriend wank when he is not with me?

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he just told me that he does it to himself sometimes when I'm not around.but I'm with him offten and never said no to him.does it need to do it when he has me and I could satifate him anytime??aslo when we are togeter nearly every night,we don't sleep together every night or not every other.he said it's nothink to do with me.I just found it shocking a bit.he doesn'tt need to do that when he has got me.or is it normal??

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  • prasatko
    11 years ago | pl

    Has he ever refused sex with you when you initiated it? If no, there is probably no problem and his behaviour is not harmful to anyone.

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    • coco7
      11 years ago | pl

      well,truelly he has refused sex with me but only once or maybe twice since we are together.because he said he wasn't in the mood and was tired,but that was all.I don't want to push him I'm giving him time.I asked him about that,don'y even know why but I didn't expect he does.and if it is only sometimes when I'm not around that can't be offten.thank you for your
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  • dirtybirdy
    11 years ago | pl

    "He doesn't need to because he has you"
    Not true. He's gonna do what he's gonna do. That's true. Going to have to deal with it, you. Not a big deal, that is true too.

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    • coco7
      11 years ago | pl

      Thank You for comment.Can see more people are saying that it's ok.

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      • dirtybirdy
        11 years ago | pl

        Sure thing. Its really not a big deal especially if your sex life is still good. If he was totally neglecting your needs it would be a different story.

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  • Redcoats
    11 years ago | pl

    Completely normal. It's nothing personal against yourself, but I can totally see your point of view of why you would think so. Without going into gritty details, it's more so a health thing that men have to do (; Okay? Don't stress about it at all (:

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    • coco7
      11 years ago | pl

      Thank you.I just really fund it wired.I thought he doesn't need to do that.I'm trying to understand,but I think it can efect our sexlife.

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  • cerberus0O0
    10 years ago | pl

    Trust me, NO MATTER WHAT men will always masturbate. It's in our nature.

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  • coco7
    11 years ago | pl

    It seems it's not bid deal...I'm just wondering if it is not just because you're all probably males. :) but thank you anyway

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    • Angel_in_a_Glass_Dress
      11 years ago | pl

      Not all of us are males. ;-)

      And yes not only is this normal... it's something us females love doing too. ;-)
      it feels good.

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  • PapzBSlim
    11 years ago | pl

    As long as he is faithful and does not fantasize about another girl when you are intimate, not a big deal.

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