Wow, we are in a long distance relationship and have been for a LONG time, I feel like things are getting stale. I mean, is it really horrible of me want him to say Happy Valentines Day? I love him, and I'm not leaving him ever. As I said in my story I'm looking for ways to deal with it, and its definitely not an excuse. We have laugh together and such, but I feel like a bestfriend who has sex with him most of the time. He says he loves me, but he says he can't make love to me. I'm just confused and wish there was a way to cope with his unromantic views.
Umm... do you think that since you are in a long distance relationship that maybe he could be cheating on you? Maybe his lack of romance is a way of emotional detachment, the reason he can't "make love" to you. I hope he is not cheating on you, but I just had to say what came to my mind when I read your story.
lol No, he isn't cheating. He talks to me every waking hour of the day and most of the night. Also I've known him forever, he is a honest decent guy. But thanks for commenting!
If he has explained this to you and you are both still doing well, regardless of distance, the best thing i can suggest is to lower your romantic expectations and use that energy on something more productive.
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Wow, we are in a long distance relationship and have been for a LONG time, I feel like things are getting stale. I mean, is it really horrible of me want him to say Happy Valentines Day? I love him, and I'm not leaving him ever. As I said in my story I'm looking for ways to deal with it, and its definitely not an excuse. We have laugh together and such, but I feel like a bestfriend who has sex with him most of the time. He says he loves me, but he says he can't make love to me. I'm just confused and wish there was a way to cope with his unromantic views.
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Umm... do you think that since you are in a long distance relationship that maybe he could be cheating on you? Maybe his lack of romance is a way of emotional detachment, the reason he can't "make love" to you. I hope he is not cheating on you, but I just had to say what came to my mind when I read your story.
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lol No, he isn't cheating. He talks to me every waking hour of the day and most of the night. Also I've known him forever, he is a honest decent guy. But thanks for commenting!
Some people just lack the romance.
If he has explained this to you and you are both still doing well, regardless of distance, the best thing i can suggest is to lower your romantic expectations and use that energy on something more productive.