You should really talk to him about it. Let it all out...Everyone needs affection and attentention from their lovers , but yours is not giving you that. Perhaps he needs help from a proffesional or something? Nobody should be begging for love or romance from their partners. By reading your story, i can tell your suffering and keeping it all in will make you crack. Let him know or let him go. I know it's hard because you love him but is it worth it loving someone who can't love you and satisfy your girly needs ?
I try to talk to him about it and he gets seriously upset because in his own way he is trying(I think). Back when I was trying to change him, I sent a blank envolope with a stamp on it. He could have written something like "I love you" on a piece of scrap paper. I want him to be happy, and I feel like for one of us to get what we want, the other will be unhappy.
Are you sure he's trying ? Because if he actually is ( i don't mean bringing you out for dinner cuz he feels like he has too ) that's good. But if he dosent change. You probably won't be able to handle it :/
Okay well good luck ! :) i hope you made the right choice and that hopefully your bf starts showing more love to you. BUT if this relationship only keeps making you sadder and sadder , i suggest you leave him, but only if your not satisfied with this relationship that is .
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You should really talk to him about it. Let it all out...Everyone needs affection and attentention from their lovers , but yours is not giving you that. Perhaps he needs help from a proffesional or something? Nobody should be begging for love or romance from their partners. By reading your story, i can tell your suffering and keeping it all in will make you crack. Let him know or let him go. I know it's hard because you love him but is it worth it loving someone who can't love you and satisfy your girly needs ?
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I try to talk to him about it and he gets seriously upset because in his own way he is trying(I think). Back when I was trying to change him, I sent a blank envolope with a stamp on it. He could have written something like "I love you" on a piece of scrap paper. I want him to be happy, and I feel like for one of us to get what we want, the other will be unhappy.
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Are you sure he's trying ? Because if he actually is ( i don't mean bringing you out for dinner cuz he feels like he has too ) that's good. But if he dosent change. You probably won't be able to handle it :/
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I think I'll just suck it up. In every other way we're prefect for each. I guess I'll just try and focus on that.
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Okay well good luck ! :) i hope you made the right choice and that hopefully your bf starts showing more love to you. BUT if this relationship only keeps making you sadder and sadder , i suggest you leave him, but only if your not satisfied with this relationship that is .
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Thank you for your advice!
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No problem