Is it normal that my boyfriend thinks that i should prefer him first?
my boyfriend wants me to prefer him first than my friend all the time and if dont do that then he thinks that i am not interested in him
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my boyfriend wants me to prefer him first than my friend all the time and if dont do that then he thinks that i am not interested in him
sounds like a clingy jealous boyfriend to me. i'd say you should voice your concerns with him and let him know that he is being clingy and jealous and those qualities are unattractive. and explain to him that since you are such a great person, that he needs to share you with other people and not be so selfish, so that you can bless other people's lives as well as his.
People have different concepts and ideas about love, friendship, relationships etc.
Personally, to me love and long term relationship with my partner with whom I share sexual and emotional intimacy is more important than friendship or other forms of relationships, so I prefer my partner to my friends or other people, so naturally it would make me feel frustrated if I preferred her as my number one in my hierarchy and she would take me just as number 3 or 15... But fortunately I and my partner are similar in this respect but I think it is not so common nowadays when people have all kinds of priorities except for their partners. It is not right or wrong, good or bad, but it is great if two partners share the same hierarchy of priorities.
Unless it's to an extreme extent, you should generally favor your boyfriend over other friends. Getting blown off by your partner can often times be seen as personal especially at the beginning of a relationship. Voice your opinion. If you can't even talk about the subject then you honestly should not be together.