I sense your confusion and the best thing you can do at your age is start to mature now . It will make things a lot better for you down the road when choosing a life partner . I think it was silly your boyfriend talked to the girl to make her boyfriend jealous , he should be confident , mature and trust you enough not to worry who talks to you . If you are a loyal girl and don't play into another mans attention , he should have no worry . If you are worried about him leaving you , cheating on you or being unfaithful in any scenario .. please don't . It's common at your age for jealousy to be high but think about it honey , he is going to do whatever he want's regardless of your actions so decide if he is trust worthy and let life take its natural course . If he is a good guy and wants to be with you , it will work out and he will and if not , you cant control him so why make your relationship harder by jumping to conclusions . If you notice he is actually doing things that go against your relationship values .. don't you waste on tear or bit of energy getting upset with him about it , leave and move on to hopefully find someone better . You will be a bit heart broken and upset by him being unfaithful if he ever is but remind yourself , you are young .. you are just dating and more males will come your way throughout life until you find the one .. it's a natural part of life we all have to endure . I wouldn't cause a fight , just keep an eye on things and make sure he is being a good boy but if a girl talks to him , oh well .. males and females interact naturally and it doesn't always mean something sinister .
IIN that my boyfriend talks to other girls...
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I sense your confusion and the best thing you can do at your age is start to mature now . It will make things a lot better for you down the road when choosing a life partner . I think it was silly your boyfriend talked to the girl to make her boyfriend jealous , he should be confident , mature and trust you enough not to worry who talks to you . If you are a loyal girl and don't play into another mans attention , he should have no worry . If you are worried about him leaving you , cheating on you or being unfaithful in any scenario .. please don't . It's common at your age for jealousy to be high but think about it honey , he is going to do whatever he want's regardless of your actions so decide if he is trust worthy and let life take its natural course . If he is a good guy and wants to be with you , it will work out and he will and if not , you cant control him so why make your relationship harder by jumping to conclusions . If you notice he is actually doing things that go against your relationship values .. don't you waste on tear or bit of energy getting upset with him about it , leave and move on to hopefully find someone better . You will be a bit heart broken and upset by him being unfaithful if he ever is but remind yourself , you are young .. you are just dating and more males will come your way throughout life until you find the one .. it's a natural part of life we all have to endure . I wouldn't cause a fight , just keep an eye on things and make sure he is being a good boy but if a girl talks to him , oh well .. males and females interact naturally and it doesn't always mean something sinister .
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Awww thank youuu :))
May the Old and New Gods be with you!