I think that spanking is the most intense, erotic, and best foreplay!
However, it sounds like only HE is enjoying it.
Tell him to give you a warmup, starting off smacking lightly and not too fast; between the swats he should caress, massage, and pinch your buns, as well as tell you how lovely you are and what a fine butt you have--how it's beautiful changing from white to pink to red, and how good it feels as it gets hotter and hotter--and how he can't wait for his hands to feel all over your body. Imagine the special presentation you are on his lap: your lovely bottom right in front of his hands and eyes under his control, and he has access to all the special places below your belt. He should also take time to caress your thighs, arms, back, face, hair--and notice how wet you're getting (and you be sure to give him lots of moans and positive feedback with your voice and body)! If this were a punishment spanking, you'd still probably get aroused and wet, and this would be a good time for him to say that you're enjoying it too much and give you some harder smacks with an implement! Note that many gals want to get spanked more intensely with a belt or paddle after 10 or so minutes when they're well warmed up because the stimulation imparted on their behinds is not “feeling” as intense...
A punishment spanking starts hard and fast--not the erotic spanking he's giving you! The slower, less intense erotic spanking gives time for your body to release endorphin (the body's natural morphine--but stronger) so it deadens the pain--and then you'll probably want him to spank you harder after 10-15 minutes! Remember, this should start slow and remain fairly slow; in fact, a "Good Girl Spanking" starts out this way and the swats are kept below your threshold of pain--and it's quite a treat for you--and for him because you won't be able to keep your hands off him for hot, hot sex!
Is it normal that my boyfriend spanks me when we have sex?
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I think that spanking is the most intense, erotic, and best foreplay!
However, it sounds like only HE is enjoying it.
Tell him to give you a warmup, starting off smacking lightly and not too fast; between the swats he should caress, massage, and pinch your buns, as well as tell you how lovely you are and what a fine butt you have--how it's beautiful changing from white to pink to red, and how good it feels as it gets hotter and hotter--and how he can't wait for his hands to feel all over your body. Imagine the special presentation you are on his lap: your lovely bottom right in front of his hands and eyes under his control, and he has access to all the special places below your belt. He should also take time to caress your thighs, arms, back, face, hair--and notice how wet you're getting (and you be sure to give him lots of moans and positive feedback with your voice and body)! If this were a punishment spanking, you'd still probably get aroused and wet, and this would be a good time for him to say that you're enjoying it too much and give you some harder smacks with an implement! Note that many gals want to get spanked more intensely with a belt or paddle after 10 or so minutes when they're well warmed up because the stimulation imparted on their behinds is not “feeling” as intense...
A punishment spanking starts hard and fast--not the erotic spanking he's giving you! The slower, less intense erotic spanking gives time for your body to release endorphin (the body's natural morphine--but stronger) so it deadens the pain--and then you'll probably want him to spank you harder after 10-15 minutes! Remember, this should start slow and remain fairly slow; in fact, a "Good Girl Spanking" starts out this way and the swats are kept below your threshold of pain--and it's quite a treat for you--and for him because you won't be able to keep your hands off him for hot, hot sex!