It's all part of S&M, which is a common sexual interest. Some people like causing pain during sexual activity or find causing pain itself a sexual activity, others like receiving pain during sexual activity or find receiving pain itself a sexual activity. The degree varies tremendously from person to person, some enjoying a light spanking, others enjoying piercing skin, cutting, burning etc.
It sounds like your boyfriend enjoys mild sadism in the bedroom - he likes to cause slight pain and discomfort to his sexual partner. It's not uncommon.
The problem is that enjoyment doesn't appear to be mutual. If you're not in any way masochistic and it upsets you that he spanks you, you should tell him about it. If he loves you he should respect your wishes and not hurt you anymore. We can't always indulge each other's fantasies and it is something he will have to come to terms with.
Is it normal that my boyfriend spanks me when we have sex?
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It's all part of S&M, which is a common sexual interest. Some people like causing pain during sexual activity or find causing pain itself a sexual activity, others like receiving pain during sexual activity or find receiving pain itself a sexual activity. The degree varies tremendously from person to person, some enjoying a light spanking, others enjoying piercing skin, cutting, burning etc.
It sounds like your boyfriend enjoys mild sadism in the bedroom - he likes to cause slight pain and discomfort to his sexual partner. It's not uncommon.
The problem is that enjoyment doesn't appear to be mutual. If you're not in any way masochistic and it upsets you that he spanks you, you should tell him about it. If he loves you he should respect your wishes and not hurt you anymore. We can't always indulge each other's fantasies and it is something he will have to come to terms with.