You said you can deal with it, but do you like it? I don't think you should have to submit yourself to an unpleasant experience just to satisfy someone else's festish. If he's leaving handprints for 2 days afterwards, that's abuse, and if he thinks he can get away with abusing you in this way, he'll do it in others. That's how women get into abusive marriages. If you are even thinking of marrying him, tell him he's hurting you, and needs to control. I tend to think that this is veiled anger that he's taking out on you.
Is it normal that my boyfriend spanks me when we have sex?
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You said you can deal with it, but do you like it? I don't think you should have to submit yourself to an unpleasant experience just to satisfy someone else's festish. If he's leaving handprints for 2 days afterwards, that's abuse, and if he thinks he can get away with abusing you in this way, he'll do it in others. That's how women get into abusive marriages. If you are even thinking of marrying him, tell him he's hurting you, and needs to control. I tend to think that this is veiled anger that he's taking out on you.