Its probably for the best that you're losing him.
Your thought process is very concerning and I think you need to spend time being single and work on yourself.
I wonder if you were taught that this behavior, because it's not normal at all.
I think you would benefit from counciling.
I don't usually say that either because I think counciling is useless for most people, but you seem to have a severe problem with figuring things out for yourself.
The fact that you would rather be an abused mistress than be alone is not good.
I even like being alone, so I do not understand your situation at all. Find someone who respects you the way you respect them. If you think you are helping this guy, you are doing the opposite. Enabling people to continue negative behavior can be as bad as abuse.
Is it normal that my boyfriend slaps me and calls me a whore?
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Its probably for the best that you're losing him.
Your thought process is very concerning and I think you need to spend time being single and work on yourself.
I wonder if you were taught that this behavior, because it's not normal at all.
I think you would benefit from counciling.
I don't usually say that either because I think counciling is useless for most people, but you seem to have a severe problem with figuring things out for yourself.
The fact that you would rather be an abused mistress than be alone is not good.
I even like being alone, so I do not understand your situation at all. Find someone who respects you the way you respect them. If you think you are helping this guy, you are doing the opposite. Enabling people to continue negative behavior can be as bad as abuse.