Is it normal that my boyfriend should be distant while sick?

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  • JakobWithaK77
    7 years ago | pl

    First off, does he always treat you like that? And second, if anything he should be supporting you or not. I don't care if my GF had the flu, I would risk getting it if it were for her

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    • buttons4me
      7 years ago | pl

      No he doesn't always treat me like that, but still I don't know why he does it half the time.

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      • JakobWithaK77
        7 years ago | pl

        Have you asked him?
        I would recommend talking to him and expressing your concern, try squeezing a few answers out of him.

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        • buttons4me
          7 years ago | pl

          I did ask, his repply was, "don't start, I am in extreme pain here"

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          • RoseIsabella
            7 years ago | pl

            Yeah, that would be my cue to walk out the door. I would probably see him as an entitled person who thinks his pain is an excuse to treat me badly. There are plenty of other people who are in excruciating pain who don't take it out on their caregivers.

            I had some major colitis issues about 9 years ago. I was on a liquid diet for 6 weeks, and I didn't attack anyone. Believe me colitis can be a pain in the ass. I honestly think people who snap like that are weak inside. Such a person is not worthy of my time, energy, effort and love if he or she gonna treat me like shit! End of muthafuckin story.

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