Is it normal that my boyfriend often wants to touch my boobs

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We are both 18 and we have been together for 6 months. We are both committed and due to personal preference, we decided to keep sex for after marriage only. My boyfriend is the sweetest guy on earth, he is always there for me, and he always make sure that I am happy.

However, my boyfriend likes to get intimate with me, he likes to touch my boobs. He always asks me if it's okay to make sure I feel comfortable, but he asks to touch them too often, to my personal opinion. I.e., every time we are alone.

It's not that I'm uncomfortable about it, but I just wonder if it was normal for a guy to act like this? I mean, does he really love me for who I am and he is just physically attracted towards me OR does he love me only for my body?

I feel REALLY silly to think like this, because there is nothing I should be worrying about, so please can someone tell me I'm overreacting?

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  • MisterDam
    10 years ago

    As a guy myself, yes it is completely normal. It doesn't mean he loves you just for your boobs, but ( at least for me) there's a balance between personality, body, & boobs (boobs do get an extra point, though)

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  • quentari
    10 years ago

    Well so long as he knows he isn't going to get sex there's no real problem with it. If he was only with you for your body he'd probably choose an "easier" girl.

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  • ygrowup
    10 years ago

    It's very normal, and I hope it is not uncomfortable for you, because this type of desire usually does not fade! Guys live boobs, and even more when they are attached to a lovely women that they care for!

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  • Josh'sgirl17
    8 years ago

    It's DEFINITELY normal!! My boyfriend always asks, just in case I'm not in the mood. He loves my boobs, and I'm proud that he does. Not only is it great for him when he's turned on, but I love it when he does it! Yea, girls always say how they "get so wet" when he does it, but I love it because it makes me feel like he's not afraid to show affection. When we first started dating, he was scared to even hold my hand. It took a month before kissed, and that same day I let him play with my boobs. It's a win win situation, really. He asks out of respect. The longer you guys stay together, the less he'll ask because he already knows the answer! I hope I helped!

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  • Sneha
    9 years ago

    Yes its normal every boy likes boobs he press it for fun and make a girl more romantic .usually girls love it when a boy keep his hand on girls chest it won't increase its size but he do it to satstfy her girl and her wants

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  • RomeoDeMontague
    10 years ago

    Guys like boobs. Some like boobs, some like butts, some like hands, some like wrists, some like feet. Yeah guys are a lot more likely to have an obsession to particular parts of the body apposed to a women. However we have some women with penis envy that talk about penis all the time.

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  • dirtybirdy
    10 years ago

    Boobs are cool or something. I think.

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  • howaminotmyself
    10 years ago

    It's hard to say. My husband is always touching my boobs. He certainly doesn't need permission at this point and I know he loves me for more than my body but he likes boobs. So he cops a feel as often as possible.

    Men like boobs. But it doesn't mean he doesn't like the rest of you. Although some men are pigs about it. So yeah, it's hard to say.

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  • iluvboth
    10 years ago

    He is an absolutely horrible man. next time he touches your boobs, reach down and gently rub his cock. keep doing it until he gets hard
    Then ask him how he likes it when you touch him. no wait a minute I'm a guy. so this might not bring the results you want. but it is worth a try

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