Why would you want to marry someone who isn't 100%% sure that you are the one? Clearly, he does not, and you know this because you wouldn't be sneaking in his account to try to find validation that he does.
More importantly, why would you want to marry someone you don't feel is 100%% the one for you either? You know exactly what's going. You say he doesn't like change - but I think that's you. This is your first relationship, you got a house together. The realization that this probably won't work has already happened, or you wouldn't be asking strangers to validate what you already know, but can't admit to yourself.
Best of luck. You will find love, real love. Love isn't every smooth or certain, but it always feels RIGHT. Does this feel right to you?
is it normal that my boyfriend of 8 years wont marry me?
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Why would you want to marry someone who isn't 100%% sure that you are the one? Clearly, he does not, and you know this because you wouldn't be sneaking in his account to try to find validation that he does.
More importantly, why would you want to marry someone you don't feel is 100%% the one for you either? You know exactly what's going. You say he doesn't like change - but I think that's you. This is your first relationship, you got a house together. The realization that this probably won't work has already happened, or you wouldn't be asking strangers to validate what you already know, but can't admit to yourself.
Best of luck. You will find love, real love. Love isn't every smooth or certain, but it always feels RIGHT. Does this feel right to you?