Okay...can I just be honest here? This whole thing doesn't look good to me. First of all, let me start with the calling and emailing and "riding" the girl from work. Sounds suspicious to me, I have to tell you. Why on earth are they calling and emailing each other??
Secondly, I don't buy the "afraid to marry because of differing religions" business. Many, many people who are in love with each other marry with differing religions and find ways to make it work.
And what is this "booty" thing??? Either he loves you and wants to marry you or he doesn't. Eight years is a lot of time for him to make up his mind.
I think you have some soul searching to do and some discussions to have with him. Tell him what you expect from this relationship (if the calling/emailing, etc. from that girl bothers you, tell him.). If you expect that you and he get married by next summer, tell him. Then listen to what he says back. If he TRULY loves you, he will understand what you are saying and do ANYTHING to have a happy, successful relationship with you. If he gives you grief............MOVE ON. Good luck.
is it normal that my boyfriend of 8 years wont marry me?
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Okay...can I just be honest here? This whole thing doesn't look good to me. First of all, let me start with the calling and emailing and "riding" the girl from work. Sounds suspicious to me, I have to tell you. Why on earth are they calling and emailing each other??
Secondly, I don't buy the "afraid to marry because of differing religions" business. Many, many people who are in love with each other marry with differing religions and find ways to make it work.
And what is this "booty" thing??? Either he loves you and wants to marry you or he doesn't. Eight years is a lot of time for him to make up his mind.
I think you have some soul searching to do and some discussions to have with him. Tell him what you expect from this relationship (if the calling/emailing, etc. from that girl bothers you, tell him.). If you expect that you and he get married by next summer, tell him. Then listen to what he says back. If he TRULY loves you, he will understand what you are saying and do ANYTHING to have a happy, successful relationship with you. If he gives you grief............MOVE ON. Good luck.