I don't know about where you live but here in the US being legally married does have some benefits (medical, tax etc). Also if you have children they will be legitimate not little bastards! Seriously though, if its important to you he should consider it at least.
Why does he feel this way? Some guesses are he fears commitment, he thinks it will somehow ruin your fun relationship, or maybe he is just cheap and doesn't want to buy a ring and go through a wedding.
You should insist on talking about the issue and if he says marriage can ruin the relationship, bring up the fact that his stubbornness can also ruin the relationship.
Is it normal that my boyfriend of 8 years doesn't want to get engaged?
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You think I should start charging him?
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I don't know about where you live but here in the US being legally married does have some benefits (medical, tax etc). Also if you have children they will be legitimate not little bastards! Seriously though, if its important to you he should consider it at least.
Why does he feel this way? Some guesses are he fears commitment, he thinks it will somehow ruin your fun relationship, or maybe he is just cheap and doesn't want to buy a ring and go through a wedding.
You should insist on talking about the issue and if he says marriage can ruin the relationship, bring up the fact that his stubbornness can also ruin the relationship.