Interesting. In my psychology class I learned that people that are with someone for many years and doesn't want to marry is usually because they're content with where they're at. If marriage is something you want in your future, but it's something your partner doesn't want, then yo must sit him down and talk about it and come to a mutual agreement somehow. Avoid the topic in general will cause many problems in your relationship.
Thats true, if things are already perfect a marriage can only make things go bad. My life was perfect before i met a girl, now i wish i was dead. I never appreciated my happiness.
We are content but I suppose it's kind of like we are just cruising at the moment because we moved in together only 2 years into our relationship and it's kinda like well the next step is... anyway we have discussed it and he knows what I want but he just refuses to respond so I gave up talking to him about it. He wants to skip marriage and go straight to children.
Is it normal that my boyfriend of 8 years doesn't want to get engaged?
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Interesting. In my psychology class I learned that people that are with someone for many years and doesn't want to marry is usually because they're content with where they're at. If marriage is something you want in your future, but it's something your partner doesn't want, then yo must sit him down and talk about it and come to a mutual agreement somehow. Avoid the topic in general will cause many problems in your relationship.
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Thats true, if things are already perfect a marriage can only make things go bad. My life was perfect before i met a girl, now i wish i was dead. I never appreciated my happiness.
We are content but I suppose it's kind of like we are just cruising at the moment because we moved in together only 2 years into our relationship and it's kinda like well the next step is... anyway we have discussed it and he knows what I want but he just refuses to respond so I gave up talking to him about it. He wants to skip marriage and go straight to children.