Okay, I'm going to be giving you advice here and a "personal point of view" for I am that same exact boyfriend in which you speak of! Although I don't even know who you are :).
Anyway did you ever think:
A) He is just like me and completely oblivious to anything that is going on around him unless it is something he is personally trying to do at that very moment?
B) Just doesn't feel like when he does do the dishes you don't verbally reward him or applaud him for doing so?
I mean I know how it sounds "dude, you just did the dishes, what do you want a bee-jay or something?!". Well hell yea! If I got one of those, once, or twice there would NEVER be a clean plate within a 4 mile radios of my house! And oh em gee 3 times?! I would do the dishes, rearrange the cabinets and clean the toilet bowels!
I am a man by sex, all men are pretty animalistic. Think of us like dogs, you ask it to sit and it does! You feed it, pat its head, rub its belly and give it a crazy amount of praise, meanwhile all it did was sit down! It sits down all the time! Yet what is different in this situation is that you gave it a command and it followed!
I know a lot of guys might have some problem with what I' am saying, most likely because deep down inside they know its true but are just too stubborn or pig headed to agree.
Oh well, give it a try!
When you have some clean dishes find this hidden post and give me a thanks! Or at least email me some n00dZ. JayyKayy
:)
You're a moron lol. Housework is shared work. By feeling the need to be "rewarded" by doing the simplist of tasks truly shows your innability to sympathize with your partner. When I mean shared work I mean you both live there for god's sake why expect the woman to do it, where's her compliments?
Is it normal that my boyfriend never helps me?
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Okay, I'm going to be giving you advice here and a "personal point of view" for I am that same exact boyfriend in which you speak of! Although I don't even know who you are :).
Anyway did you ever think:
A) He is just like me and completely oblivious to anything that is going on around him unless it is something he is personally trying to do at that very moment?
B) Just doesn't feel like when he does do the dishes you don't verbally reward him or applaud him for doing so?
I mean I know how it sounds "dude, you just did the dishes, what do you want a bee-jay or something?!". Well hell yea! If I got one of those, once, or twice there would NEVER be a clean plate within a 4 mile radios of my house! And oh em gee 3 times?! I would do the dishes, rearrange the cabinets and clean the toilet bowels!
I am a man by sex, all men are pretty animalistic. Think of us like dogs, you ask it to sit and it does! You feed it, pat its head, rub its belly and give it a crazy amount of praise, meanwhile all it did was sit down! It sits down all the time! Yet what is different in this situation is that you gave it a command and it followed!
I know a lot of guys might have some problem with what I' am saying, most likely because deep down inside they know its true but are just too stubborn or pig headed to agree.
Oh well, give it a try!
When you have some clean dishes find this hidden post and give me a thanks! Or at least email me some n00dZ. JayyKayy
:)
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You're a moron lol. Housework is shared work. By feeling the need to be "rewarded" by doing the simplist of tasks truly shows your innability to sympathize with your partner. When I mean shared work I mean you both live there for god's sake why expect the woman to do it, where's her compliments?