IIN that my boyfriend maybe took advantage of me when I was drunk?

I was actually thinking the same thing. I mean she mentions how she was horny and they were already getting busy anyways. I'm not victim-blaming here, but it just sounds like things were already getting hot n heavy, it's not rape because really where did you expect it to go? It's almost like she's looking for someone to blame for being drunk and horny. The way that she ends the post doesn't help, she mentions that she doesn't know, which reinforces the whole looking for someone to blame theory.

I think it's both their faults, the OP and her boyfriend. Although I'm having a hard time even saying the guy's at fault, since again things were already getting pretty hot. It just seems like the OP doesn't want to acknowledge her own role in this whole situation.