IIN that my boyfriend maybe took advantage of me when I was drunk?

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  • You were raped. I'm so so sorry, hun. It's not your fault. The best thing you can do is talk the police about what happened.

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    • Doesn't sound like rape but definitely inappropriate behavior, especially for someone that you call your boyfriend.

      Another point worth noting is the presence of alcohol - not much good happens when alcohol is present.

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      • There are different types of rape; gang rape, rape with tools and implements etc. but they are all taking advantage.
        This is a form of rape because it was taking advantage of someone sexually, but you can't blame the alcohol. It doesn't matter, it's still rape.

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        • I understand your point, and acknowledge I don't know the legal nuances of definitions of rape which is why I identified it as definitely inappropriate.

          I am not blaming alcohol at all, but what I am saying is that without the presence of alcohol, this could not have happened as the girl would have been in full control of herself. I am NOT blaming the girl, just making the point the presence of heavy alcohol consumption rarely leads to positive outcomes.

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          • Yeah I know. I didn't mean to get that drunk. I am a complete lightweight because I am small and skinny and alcohol tends to hit me strongly and suddenly. I hadn't drunk for ages before that too so I forgot how much it affects me.

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            • It is your fault! Cocktease! if you can't handle drinking then don't do it. Simple as that! Then u expect people to feel sorry 4 u. Please. Then u say u dry humped with your bf. And then he raped you! You are a silly little girl, grow up and don't play with men's minds, unless you plan to deliver. Trix are for kids, silly wabbit! The Queen is disgusted by you!

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