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My boyfriend recently confessed to me that when he worked at walmart he would go in the restroom and masturbate . He also told me here whacked off in his grandmothers RV when they were on vacation (granny was not in there). I don't know if I should be worried or not. IIN?
Back in 1981, when I was 22(But about as mature as 12), I played with myself in public restrooms all the time, but only in closed stalls. One night while waiting to see a rare movie I'd been looking foward to in Harvard University's Carpenter Center, I really overdid it because I was having family problems at the time. About a half hour later, I found myself being questioned by the Harvard Police, then being manuvered out of the auditorium once I (stupidly) admitted to having been masturbating(I'd had no idea that would have been the problem!)I just freaked out and felt as if I were having a stroke!How did they know? And what in heck was the difference if nobody could really see it? Did one other person there give a damn? I was so sure only the stupidest yahoo could have cared if I was jacking off in a stall, but here were these puffy middle aged donut munchers butting in and ejecting me from a haven for intelligent people. What really p'd me off was that a black man who I thought worked there and who I thought knew me just said "You were doing something abnormal in there, weren't you" and insisted he did not masturbate when I hoped he'd help me.I called him a "Right-wing Fascist idiot". The cops finally followed me out of Carpenter Center, and I was SO MAD that I ran down the street shouting , kneeled in front of a mailbox, and pounded it with my fists. Fade in about a decade later: The Pee-Wee Herman thing happened, and it reminded me. But I knew by now-YOU DON'T WALK INTO AN IVY LEAGUE UNIVERSITY'S PROPERTY AND JACK OFF AGAIN AND AGAIN IN THEIR TOILET AND THINK THEY'D JUST SHRUG IT OFF OR PITY YOU IF THEY KNEW. THE POLICE WERE PERFECTLY REASONABLE, NOT STUPID "FASCISTS".THAT A VENUE IS LEFT WING AND SHOWS FILMS ABOUT GAYS DOESN"T MAKE IT OKAY TO PLAY WITH YOURSELF THERE! I'd been really confused about things like that in my elitist youth!And I never spanked the monkey in a public toilet again!