Is it normal that my boyfriend litterally makes me want to hit him?

okay so me and my guy been dating like almost a year. and i love him to death. but he is so like obsessive all the time. i mean we txt 24/7 and i say it gets on my nerves but its just like uhhh. and then he is sometimes childish and just gets on my nerves. like the other day he purposely walked in front of the tv in slow motion while i was playing a game. and then at the same time he is just stupid about sex. like he smacks my butt all the time. and well be like "ooohhhhh sexy mama" and just its so annoying as shit. i mean he will be swimming with me and just like start rubbing me all over and sometimes if i bind down for something e always is like "ohhhhhh look at that booty" and like dry humps me at random times and it pisses me off and he wonders why i get mad. so to my point it all literally makes me want to just beat him i the face. and i am starting to worry that i may actually do it one day. and he wants to be like married and i am scared i'd end up really hurting him wth a knife or something it he caught me at the wrong moment and pushed me to far. i mean really wtf can i do. i love him more than anything. but he is so fucking stupid!

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  • Dump him. Judging by his 24/7 txting and "dry humping" he is probably seeing someone else on the side and wants to keep things going with you by making remarks about you.It's happened to me before, don't let it happen to you.
    Hope it ends well
    Helios

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  • Love is blind.

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  • why is your ass so tight? loosen up and have fun.He's playing, fuck you cant take a joke?

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  • This makes me laugh! But seriously, I have a boyfriend who is very similar. Follows me around the house and pulls my pants down, and when I take him out to a public venue like a theater he says in a loud enough voice so that others can hear, " you are so sexy". "I want to pull your panties down right now". "I am imagining what you look like naked" or what really gets is me when he reveals private information like " last night you looked so...when you were having an orgasm" or "when I make you come.....". Those out of context comments I can somehow pass over but what really makes me mad is that he expects me to live with him. There are times when he makes me so mad that I bite and kick and hit him. I am 44 and have never felt this way towards any of my previous guys. The last guy I used to live with was much older, and much brighter, guy than me and within the ten years we lived together we agreed on almost everything, never even had a real argument. So, it is new to me to feel this way towards a guy. I love my boyfriend to death, he is super cute and cuddly and touches me all the time but he is such an idiot that I can't believe that I even know him. And now that I lost my income I am faced with a decision to move across the country and stay with my Mom or somehow to move in with him. It infuriates me that he would keep insisting that I move into his dump with his unkept children and at the same time i love that he wants me so badly and I love the attention that I get from him. Some one help me. It is funny and would make for a great comedy but I have never been so insulted, angry, frustrated and flattered all at the same time.

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  • how old is he

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  • Gowsh I have a similar situation, yours just seems worse. He almost seems obsessed with sex and shows it in the most immature ways, I've told him how I feel and he always says he will try to be different but he never changes, but I realllly like him.

    Talk to him I guess, tell him there is a time and a place and make him listen to you and see how serious you are.

    When I talk to my bf he says he gets it but he does the same thing, then when i start to 'cry' he takes me seriously...tears can do a lot and it might just show him how much he is annoying you.

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    • Iam haveing the same problem :( accept not about sex... My bf of two years, is just annoyingly childish , and never listens to a word i/anyone else says, litterally ignores me, even when hes stareing at me in the face, he just never listens or cares to change, >< i love him, and dont want to hurt him, but its difficult to deal with, but i agree with the talk, it can help, :)
      Hope things have went well for you!

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  • your... crazy. maybe you have an anger issue? why don't you just tell him all the things that bother you like a civilized person. and if he doesn't want to listen, you need to dump him for both his and your sake.

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  • Maybe talk to him? Like, a sit-down-and-talk-moment. If he doesn't change, ur going to either learn to love him past his childishness or break up. But give him a chance to work on it for the good of the relationship.

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  • First off how old are you? Secondly take a chill pill if you don't want to text 24/7 don't text back! Or seriously tell him he's smothering you. As for walking in front if the tv while playing a video game, seriously???? It's just a game there isnt a restart button for no reason! Also enjoy the fact that your bf enjoys looking at your body something tells me you won't have it forever aaaaannnnnddddd so what if he dry humps you maybe he's marking his territory be happy he hasn't wized on you yet!!!!

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    • ur so fucking stupid. thats the dumbest thing ive heard. immaturity? maybe u should date him

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