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When me and my boyfriend of two years have sex he holds me down and bites me and sometimes hard enough to make me bleed. He also spanks me really hard. Is it normal?
Normal for some. Horrifying for others.
If he's hurting you without your consent, he's an asshole.
Run for the hills.
I'm with LondonGavin619, it depends. If you feel it is degrading and makes less than human, stop it. If you enjoy the thrill of the ride and it satisfy your desires, well it's up to you. Not okay if he is injuring to a point. I used to be with this girl. She likes rape fantasy. She always requests rough sex, hair pulling, holding her down hard, thrusting and pounding hard, different sex positions, anal sex and many things you see in a hardcore porn. It feeds her inner sexual desires and urges. I enjoyed it a lot. It always open a door to new sexual experience (no pun intended). People have limits. Do want makes you happy.
rather than focusing on what he does to you (spanking biting etc) ... how about asking yourself if you LIKE it.
if you like it then carry on, just be sure he respects your "safe word"
if not then set down some ground rules or eject from the relationship if he won't listen
No I don't believe in this type of force this type of brutality isn't a dream. No I don't believe in his system nothing he does makes sense to me.
I cant say yes or no since it depends on the couple. It sounds like your boyfriend enjoys rough sex which is yes normal. However he should not be forcing it if you are not into it. Talk to your boyfriend and tell him your not into it. This type of stuff is like S&M but not all people are into it. I myself would probobly love this type of thing but that's me. If you dont enjoy it and hes doing it to rough ask him to stop. He should understand you have things you are not comfortable with. Also with S&M they have different levels of severity. Some like it lite some like it rougher it really depends on the person. Some enjoy it to a dangerous extreme which can be dangerous.
Some guys enjoy this, but if you don't you need to move on quickly, because it most often get worse. Talk it over with him and make the right choices