Is it normal that my boyfriend jerks off when i'm about to come home?

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My boyfriend and I have a great relationship and a good sex life. But I have a couple temporary health problems that have kept me from getting very wild and a few residual insecurities from past relationships. So I've told my boyfriend that when it's obvious that he's looking at porn a lot it makes me worry. It's not just looking at porn, but it's right before I come home from work (we work different schedules so I don't see him much during the week), or when I go to the store for 20 minutes(for cold medicine for him one time). He has plenty of time to do all this when I'm at work and he could delete all the tabs/ files. He treats me really good, but I've just asked him to kinda keep it on the down low, but he still hasn't. Should I be worried?

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  • Uptight3552
    12 years ago

    I have a similar problem. I've expressed to my boyfriend how I do not like him looking at porn and jerk off to it bc it makes me feel like I'm inadequate to please him. He had said be would stop, but lately its gotten worst. He now downloads porn onto his phone and jerks off the second I leave. Our sex life has never been bad, but lately he doesn't seem as interested.
    Its very disappointing to get home and him tell "ohh I jerked of by the way" then try to show me the porn. I get disgusted by it and highly offended. He has no shame, and it hurts my feelings as if I'm not good enough. Ive expressed my feelings.time and time again, but nothing. At this time I feel like giving up :( I don't know what to do about it anymore!

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  • [Old Memory]
    13 years ago

    Yes the second a guy starts to NOT hide his porn from u he's lost respect in you. Sorry like my gf has found it b4 but by accident and she was mad at first then laughed it off but now I've hidden it so well she hasn't mentioned it in a while. But I would I ever deliberately jack off b4 my girl was about to come home or leave porn up? Definatley no. If u wanna kno my opp I would try an grab his sexual attention back lol. Or have a serious talk with him cuz porn is just an alternative never better than the real thing

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