Is it normal that my boyfriend is attracted to extremely young girls?

My boyfriend is in his 30s, he recently admitted to me that he has an attraction towards very young girls, like 12 to 18. The only kind of porn he watche's is jailbait/stickcam ect. He never watches porn with adult women. I'm becoming more and more concerned that it may be the only thing that gets him excited. Is it possible for a man to have this inclination to young girls and still feel attracted to grown women, particularly me?

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43% Normal
Based on 128 votes (55 yes)
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Comments ( 21 )
  • Ellenna

    You may well be the cover for his pedophilia: surely you've noticed how many convicted pedophiles have wives or partners who say they never suspected a thing? Even when the victims are the couple's own children?

    Please tell me you don't have daughters with him or that he has contact with any young girls!

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  • you_go_glen_coco

    I am 30 and I am attracted to girls who are younger than me. 18 to 23 years of age.
    It's because I look young and also because I like good skin.
    Seems to me like most women smoke nowadays. A disgusting, very unladylike habit that ultimately fucks up their skin.
    I know this sounds like stupid reasoning but I want to "catch" them before they get caught wide eyed, staring at this new life where party and booze and slutting about seems like the acceptable norm.

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    • iamre321

      I'd love to hear more, comment on my question please. https://www.isitnormal.com/post/is-it-ok-to-be-attracted-to-preteen-girls--254508

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  • RoseIsabella

    Go through his computer, and if you find any child porn report him to the FBI. You can probably remain anonymous.

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  • fluffy1uv

    Sorry sweety, you have a very difficult decision to make and it might be the only option. Just know that it's not your fault

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  • McBean

    Wear your Lil Bo Peep outfit for him. He'll give you good banging.

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    • Ellenna

      Oh yeah ha ha ha, child sexual abuse is so funny, isn't it?

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      • McBean

        The OP is not a child, you twit. She is a concerned adult that wants to give her man a hot fuck. Your feeble mind would send him to a nursing home because of unreasonable suspicion of unreasonable suspicion.

        Until clarify your understanding of probable cause, keep your stupid assumptions to yourself.

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        • 09876543210

          A hot fuck? She's fucking 30, she probably got over his saggy limp dick that wants pigtailed little girls to ride on it. It's fucking disgusting that you assume everything goes downhill to a path of sexual suggestions and whatnot, she's fucking concerned and you're sitting her on your conceited ass recommending some shitty foreplay to get his mood in tune.

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          • McBean

            If the foreplay is shitty, the hot fuck that follows is all the better.

            Of course, religious chastisement can feed a self-righteous ego like yours. Why don't you just cut off his balls in the name of the Lord?

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            • 09876543210

              I've never even mentioned God, what the fuck is wrong with you? Stop trying to give me some bullshit that I've never said and then tell me to cut off his balls, what the actual fuck. I'm saying she's concerned, fucking worried that's he's going to rape her kids when she's older, like what the actual fuck? Stop being such a fucking twat.

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        • fluffy1uv

          He has literally said he's attracted to a 12 year old man, please explain to me how that isn't pedophilic.

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          • Feremugi-Fix-Fix

            You're old, wrinkly and fucking used up. Those young, beautiful angels are the only ones that can satisfy him. Get over it.

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            • fluffy1uv

              If only young women can satisfy him he should never be satisfied because it's damaging to those young girls... What's wrong with you

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  • TPR.H

    Its not normal but well young girls r cuter so dunno .. acually i hv a age problem i cant think abt anyone not in nearly my age +3 -3 ... but young girls r cute i cant lie . They feel fresh :/

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  • deaddecayedcat

    And what's more I cant believe your biggest concern is he's losing interest in you.......wtf?

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  • deaddecayedcat

    I cant believe 48% said that is normal. Leave him and report him to the cops. He's a pedo and probably has downloaded illegal porn. How long before he acts on his urges and some poor kid has her life destroyed. Thats if he hasn't already acted. He needs investigating. Not normal!!!!

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  • WhiteApple

    You're wasting your time with this guy, he'll be living behind bars someday! The guy is not normal at all! Question, is he a Muslim?

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  • Hellomysexy

    The smell of young pussy is just hot like anything. I am 48 . I like young giils above 18 to 20. Specially I like to lick their ass

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  • _Mehhhh_

    I think it's tricky, because the awkward reality is he hasn't really comitted a crime until he actually acts on it and molests an underage girl. I mean you can't really police thoughts, or even attraction.

    I wonder if there's any help he can get though. Personally I don't accept pedophilia as a legit sexuality like heterosexuality or homosexuality, since most people have a lot of fluidity with what ages they can find attractive and it shifts throughout life. I'm pretty sure it's something he can probably change, or it's just a fetish at best.

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