Is it normal that my boyfriend has never told me he loves me?

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In 9 days, my boyfriend and I will have been together for 2 years. Is it normal that he has yet to tell me he loves me?

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  • anti-hero
    10 years ago | pl

    Maybe he doesn't :(

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    • BreezyGirl
      10 years ago | pl

      His actions tell me that he does, so I know that's not the case.

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      • ibreathelectric
        10 years ago | pl

        Actions as in... sex? If that's the answer, then I would head back on up to Parrish's answer one more time.

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        • BreezyGirl
          10 years ago | pl

          Actions as in the way he treats me and acts towards me. Nice, thoughtful, considerate, caring, etc.

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          • ibreathelectric
            10 years ago | pl

            If you're looking for an intimate or serious relationship, then I would go looking for someone else. It sounds like he's too shy to share his feelings for you and after 2 years that shouldn't be a problem. The only other explanation is that he doesn't have that deep of feelings for you. Feelings, like "liking" but not "loving", you know?

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  • BurnaBaby27
    10 years ago | pl

    Have you told him you loved him?

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    • BreezyGirl
      10 years ago | pl

      I have, but then I started feeling like I was pressuring him to say it back. Which I really don't want to do. I want him to say it because he wants to, not because I want him to. Make sense? I honestly think he does, but to him it is just a word.

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      • BurnaBaby27
        10 years ago | pl

        I understand. If it's just a word, he shouldn't have a problem saying it. I think you really should discuss this with him because only he knows why he hasn't said it.

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  • [Old Memory]
    10 years ago | pl

    Why would you stay with someone for two years of your life if they haven't told you they are in love with you???

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    • BreezyGirl
      10 years ago | pl

      Because we are bestfriends and have been for longer than we have been togther. I honestly think he does, but he doesn't see the importance in saying it. He is the type that thinks actions should say everything, and they do, but I would still like to hear him say it. I don't know... Maybe it's a girly thing.

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  • bantygautam
    10 years ago | pl

    i told u ''i love u'' don't worry

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  • Epofly
    10 years ago | pl

    Maybe he does not know how to love. Or is incapable of loving. Schizoid personality disorder, perhaps.

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    • BreezyGirl
      10 years ago | pl

      Or maybe just not comfortable saying it? Who knows? It just drives me crazy sometimes. Thanks for your comment.

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