Is it normal that my boyfriend has decided...

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My boyfriend and I have been seriously dating for about 14 months. We talked all through high school and finally got together toward the end of our senior year. I lost my virginity to him a year after we'd been seeing each other. Now we're older, living in our own place. The first month we were here we had sex regularly and things were going great! First he told me that he gave up giving head but still fully expected to receive it. And now, three months in he's decided that he doesn't want to have any sex anymore and he wants to wait for marriage (supposedly, I don't believe it). I cook and clean and make sure he's taken care of but the only thing that's done for me is now off the table. The craving I have for dick is through the roof and I'm considering going elsewhere to get it. I do whatever this guy needs/wants from me and I can't even get sex now? I don't think that this is fair. One day it was all about sex and then the next it's like he's a virgin. Should I be concerned?

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  • Dream_Killer
    8 years ago

    If none of the above works you can just always slip him some viagra tie him up and jump on it. :D

    Of course I'm just kidding about the above, however it is weird that he just stopped out of nowhere like that. I don't think he is necessarily cheating but maybe he is going through some type of issue? It is quite strange that you were having sex and now you aren't however I have heard of people wanting to stop and wait until they are married.

    He said he wanted to wait until marriage maybe he just got new views on having sex and not being married? I suggest asking him when he's going to marry you and see how he responds. Or maybe you should voice your needs to him.

    If sex is of a huge importance to you and you want it more than you want him and you guys can't work it out then maybe you should just move on (or ya know Viagra and rope.)

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  • D.O.C
    8 years ago

    you sound sweet ,i think he might be cheating on you ,cause he's reasoning doesn't add up

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    • Anonymous Post Author
      8 years ago

      I didn't want to let that thought creep into my mind. We live together, I mean we spend all of our free time with each other, don't really care to be around ppl much. When would he have time to?

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      • (s)aint
        8 years ago

        Would he have any chance to do so?
        maybe it´s something else that upsets him and lurks in his mind. Ask him!
        Guys can be so difficult to get to talk about feelings.

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      • CDmale4fem
        8 years ago

        And you are female, or both male ?

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      • D.O.C
        8 years ago

        ok then you have to give him time.

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  • pixie44
    8 years ago

    Maybe he just wants to be more religious. I know it seems odd. But there are a lot of people who actually do that. You have a right to be suspicious though because it's kind of uncommon with guys but still could be the truth.

    Also have you noticed anything different with him? He may be depressed or something. Or maybe he notices he is having some kind of problem down there he doesn't want to tell you about.

    If I were you I would just sit down and have a calm conversation about it. Don't cheat that's absurd! If you really want some d bad then i would talk to him about taking a break and seeing other people. Cheating is going to ruin your relationship, especially if he finds out.

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  • sillygirl77
    8 years ago

    Break up with him. You have different needs at best and something worse may be going on.

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  • Nokiot9
    8 years ago

    It doesn't necessarily mean he is cheating. He might just be over sexed. I doubt it though. If you are both that young. He's in his sexual prime. It doesn't make sense.

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  • NathanScot
    8 years ago

    Love,if a guy wants pussy take my word for it he'll find a way to get it even if ur attached at the hip.

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  • JoeMayhem
    8 years ago

    totally sounds like he's cheating. break up with him find someone who has a stronger sex drive and doesn't cheat.

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  • trueadviser
    8 years ago

    He is simple bored of sex with you. It's not jut you. Guys do get bored of sex with same person over and over.

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  • jethro
    8 years ago

    Are you male or female?

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    • LBJFan621
      8 years ago

      Female.

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      • jethro
        8 years ago

        How can you tell? The story could be interpreted either way.

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  • Arm0se
    8 years ago

    Maybe it's not even about sex. Maybe he's upset about something? I would talk to him about it and see if anything's wrong. He hasn't shared with you yet so if there is something going on it's obviously very difficult for him. Try to be understanding.

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