Many people like ASMR, it doesen't make him a weirdo. It's just relaxing for those people and not the same as a fetish. I thought it was kind of cute that a "huge muscular guy" would be so sensitive. And if he uses it to fall asleep it's clearly not turning him on, because falling asleep when you're horny is hard, believe me.
If you hate it so much you should talk to him about it, but try to understand him and don't go implying it's sexual. That'll just make him feel bad for no reason.
Is it normal that my boyfriend has a whispering/"asmr" fetish?
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Many people like ASMR, it doesen't make him a weirdo. It's just relaxing for those people and not the same as a fetish. I thought it was kind of cute that a "huge muscular guy" would be so sensitive. And if he uses it to fall asleep it's clearly not turning him on, because falling asleep when you're horny is hard, believe me.
If you hate it so much you should talk to him about it, but try to understand him and don't go implying it's sexual. That'll just make him feel bad for no reason.