He most likely will never change. So you have to decide if you want to spend your years with him, accepting him as he is, or if you are looking for something else in a boyfriend.
His experiences have shaped him into who he is today. He could be different one day--it is a possibility, but it would take a lot of work (maybe therapy), which he may not want to endure. It's not something he could do for you, but only for himself.
Is it normal that my boyfriend feels depressed & is negative 24/7
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He most likely will never change. So you have to decide if you want to spend your years with him, accepting him as he is, or if you are looking for something else in a boyfriend.
His experiences have shaped him into who he is today. He could be different one day--it is a possibility, but it would take a lot of work (maybe therapy), which he may not want to endure. It's not something he could do for you, but only for himself.