Is it normal that my boyfriend fantasizes about my best friends?

I'd like to hear more of a males perspective, but is it normal for him to think about the same ones all the time? I understand once in a while oops, but do you really think about your girlfriends closest friends all the time? and it happens to be the only ones you talk to? if you dont think that it is wrong, why? I want to know

Is It Normal?
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  • It's normal for people to fantasize, but it was strange and insensitive for him to tell you.

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    • haha agreed, if her friends are hot enough it is pretty unavoidable I guess, but actually admitting it is just fucking dumb.

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  • It's absolutely normal that he fantasizes about your friends. It's disrespectful..and downright stupid for him to tell you that.

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    • Ok my boyfriend watches porn alot.it dont bother that ha dose.until he said to me.when you get back we can play dockter.and bring your friend with you .i had a fantasy about me fucking her while you were there.well him telling me this.and her living here to know every time he watches porn.or having sex with it makes me feel like hes still fantasizing that hes fucking her instead .and the it makes me he has to do these things before he can with me.and the way he stairs at her when in same room its as if hes still fantasizing her as shes in kitchen cooking right in front of me couse of the expressions on his face light up like flares.and i said lets me you go to our room and play.he says to me im not intrested.know im mentally messed up about it.

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  • It's normal to think about but not normal to tell you.

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  • I think it's very, very weird for him to tell you and at least a bit insensitive for him to tell you. I think it's normal to have those fantasies sometimes, but not all the time.

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  • Yes it's normal, but it isn't normal that he tells you about it (if he did).

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  • He's a moron for telling you that... All guys have fantasies about girls all the time..unless they're gay of course,so it's normal

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  • Guys are very visual, and very sexual. As long as he is just looking and thinking, there isn't a problem. If he wants to act on it, then you might have a problem - unless you are into that.

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  • Yes. I fucked my girlfriends friend while she was in the same house, but I have a seriously callous and reckless train of thought. I also fucked two of my ex-friends girlfriends and they still don't know.

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    • They deserved it though.

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      • Omg someone keeps coming here and thumbing me down every two minutes. What should we do?

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        • Just leave it. If they spend all this time, then you really got them good.

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  • How do you know what he fantasizes about? Did he tell you? Why would he do that?

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  • I think about a couple of my girflriends friends alot. Im a very sexyal person and I always want to try new things. Weve talked many times about having a threesome with one of them, but of course, I am always the one to bring it up. I don't think its wrong, at leaste hes being honest with you. Do you ever think about his friends?

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  • No its not normal and not acceptable.

    What's acceptable is he should be punished for this, with you kicking him in the balls really hard many times.

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    • If a girl did that, I would beat the shit out of them. It's fucking retarded to think that you should kick a guy in the balls because he thought something.

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  • Ask your girlfriend she's ever had a threesome. If you were to watch your boyfriend do your girlfriend it might be a huge turn on for you. Knowing that your boyfriend is holding her down and given her what she really wants.

    Might be a really big sex turn on for you to watch-year-old man or your boyfriend give her the bologna pony

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  • I personally think that he isn't any good for you, because firstly if he did tell you then he is very insensitive about your feelings. secondly he probably told you that so that you won't be surprised when he tries to sleep with on of them. (I can not stress this following sentence enough so will spell it out in capitals) DO NOT UNDER ANY CIRCUMSTANCES TELL ANY OF YOUR FRIENDS THAT HE FANTASISES OVER THEM!!!! I say that because if you ever have the slightest falling out with any of them, they will likely try and fuck him from knowing what you have told them.

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  • I bet he is just hoping for a possible threesome that's why he mentions it

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  • He hasn't told about your sister, mom and granny yet?

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    • I experanced that one my ex before he became my ex and thats why he is looked right in my face and said to me he was fasinated with my sister couse of her big tits and blond hair and he wanted to fuck her while there was nothing i could do to stop him

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    • I have exclusives on them

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  • It's the way us guys are. Completely normal.

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  • You're boyfriend is normal, but the fact that he told you was reckless and retarded. Unless he cheated on you with one of them... you should go see a therapist about this if you want it to work out...

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