Is it normal that my boyfriend enjoys sticking things up his butt?

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Okay, so I know it's completely normal for a guy to like..o let's say a finger up the butt or something... but yesterday i get a text from my boyfriend, who i have sex with just about everyday multiple times (no joke), that he uses dildos up his butt and he hopes i am not mad. To top it all off it is his mom's dildo and he claims to have washed it and used a condom on it. I feel completely insecure now.... Is this normal, any of it.

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  • randypete
    13 years ago | pl

    fuck him with a strap on

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  • bigtop
    12 years ago | pl

    I love it and have a drawer full of dildos.Get him a cyber skin one there the best.

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  • LF4sDLX
    12 years ago | pl

    My moms toys were all I could get my hands to do the job properly, until I was old enough to buy my own. I think he's normal & very honest with you. Don't be creeped out. Embrace his kink! It'd be fun for both of you

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  • wiip100
    12 years ago | pl

    Men have the prostate gland in their anus; this means that it is natural to enjoy getting something up there. I have to say, it's rather disgusting that he uses his mum's one, but I suppose he washes it, and he probably does it because (trust me here, I know from experience) when you want it hard enough, and it's that close, you'll grab out at the dildo, mum or no mum. It's mine, and yes; it means you can have strapon sex, which should let you two know each other that bit more.

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  • Quackattack
    13 years ago | pl

    i think it's normal...

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  • danoo
    13 years ago | pl

    I like it too. It's normal.

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  • [Old Memory]
    13 years ago | pl

    I like it too :3, but his moms dildo? Ugh...

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  • theRealDeal
    13 years ago | pl

    Don't sweat it honey! As long as there isn't a man on the other side of that 'dildo', he's fine. SO MANY straight men use anal stimulation during masterbation. Please don't worry. You are probably all he wants or needs. Do him a favor-don't make him feel guilty or feel he's doing something wrong or gay, that's just not right or true.

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  • mr?
    10 years ago | pl

    no its sick he needs to buy his own

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  • frankiestrange
    11 years ago | pl

    My boyfriend hasn't used anything to stick up his butt, but he said he wants to try it. He also enjoys anal stimulation.

    Well in all honesty, it's the same for girls too, I guess. I love anal stimulation too, I think it works both ways. Please don't be creeped out. Guys liking anal stimulation is really a lot more common than I think people will admit. :)

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  • manmonkey
    13 years ago | pl

    The question do you masturbate ?

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  • manmonkey
    13 years ago | pl

    It is like the question do u ?
    if a man answers yes then he's a wanker and if he answers no he's a lier
    Every man has put any thing that can fit in his arse at some time and if he has not he will but very few will ever admit it
    And u could say a dildo is the tool for the job you just need to buy him one of his own ;-)

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  • [Old Memory]
    12 years ago | pl

    Hes so gay!! Big red flag, get out while u can!

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