some people really just don't like to open up. he might have his reasons, like me. people would often ask me why i won't open up, and i said it's because i didn't want to burden them with my problems. i hated being a burden to people. but i don't know why he won't let you vent out to him. maybe it's because he's too wrapped up in his own problems. saying your problems to him might give him more problems? i don't know. maybe he's the "i carry my own weight so you should carry your own weight" type of guy.
if he's that type of guy, then it doesnt sound like a strong relationship to me.
like i said couples should be able to help each other out, not only can you possibly solve the problem, but you'll most likely feel closer to each other
but i understand what you're saying about not wanting to be a burden
Is it normal that my boyfriend doesn't open up to me ?
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some people really just don't like to open up. he might have his reasons, like me. people would often ask me why i won't open up, and i said it's because i didn't want to burden them with my problems. i hated being a burden to people. but i don't know why he won't let you vent out to him. maybe it's because he's too wrapped up in his own problems. saying your problems to him might give him more problems? i don't know. maybe he's the "i carry my own weight so you should carry your own weight" type of guy.
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if he's that type of guy, then it doesnt sound like a strong relationship to me.
like i said couples should be able to help each other out, not only can you possibly solve the problem, but you'll most likely feel closer to each other
but i understand what you're saying about not wanting to be a burden