Is it normal that my boyfriend doesn't care about my lesbian ideas?
My boyfriend is not at all phased by my past as a lesbian. I was a lipstick lesbian with many girlfriends and my boyfriend is my first in years and I love him very much. I always thought men were turned on by hot lesbians, but apparently my boyfriend isn't bothered. Anyway, my boyfriend and I have been together for years now and I want to spice up the relationship a little, and my best friend and I are very close, so I thought we could do something for him or with him, completely up to him, but he isn't bothered. He didn't react in disgust or in total lust, he was just like 'Nah, I'm fine. What's for dinner?' And that's it. I would never cheat, that's not the point, I just wanted to please my bloke. But he doesn't seem to be interested in my ideas. I don't know what to do. I'm getting really bored of our routine and want the spark back. I trust my best friend, she's so beautiful and I'm not just saying that as her friend. I know my boyfriend finds her attractive. What's his deal? He doesn't even seem jealous or possessive. Just completely disinterested in me. I want to make him feel amazing.