Is it normal that my boyfriend doesn't care about my lesbian ideas?

My boyfriend is not at all phased by my past as a lesbian. I was a lipstick lesbian with many girlfriends and my boyfriend is my first in years and I love him very much. I always thought men were turned on by hot lesbians, but apparently my boyfriend isn't bothered. Anyway, my boyfriend and I have been together for years now and I want to spice up the relationship a little, and my best friend and I are very close, so I thought we could do something for him or with him, completely up to him, but he isn't bothered. He didn't react in disgust or in total lust, he was just like 'Nah, I'm fine. What's for dinner?' And that's it. I would never cheat, that's not the point, I just wanted to please my bloke. But he doesn't seem to be interested in my ideas. I don't know what to do. I'm getting really bored of our routine and want the spark back. I trust my best friend, she's so beautiful and I'm not just saying that as her friend. I know my boyfriend finds her attractive. What's his deal? He doesn't even seem jealous or possessive. Just completely disinterested in me. I want to make him feel amazing.

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  • MR.mr

    It's not necessarily that he's disinterested from what you've said I assume he's just gotten comfortable.
    To you life is getting boring because it's routine but perhaps he likes the routine and sees it as comfortable, maybe he's afraid if things get spiced up too much it will change the life that he's grown accustomed too.
    The problem therefore (if I'm correct about his liking the routine) is not that he's disinterested in you but simply he's interested in things continuing as they are.

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    • Angelandme

      Preach the truth Mr., hallelujah preach the truth!

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  • silkspector

    Truly who cares now day I'm not gay I enjoy sex with fellas but also had a 1night stand with a school friend at 17th birthday r

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  • Cookiecutter

    You make it sound like something is wrong maybe hes perfectly happy in the relationship. The only issue here is you not communicating with him try talking to him maybe see what he wants or likes. Not every guy likes the same things its called a preference.

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  • Keepsake

    MR is right. People in secure relationships get pretty comfortable, and there are some people out there who are just not the jealous/possessive type. It has nothing to do with being disinterested in you. It's just their personality type.

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  • Are you sure you don't fancy your girl friend and want her, thus creating this threesome fantasy so you can fulfill your desire for her? Is she a lesbian?

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