Is he acting different because he finds them attractive? Has he actually come right out and said that? If so, he's behaving like kind of a jerk in the first place for bloviating to you about how attractive other women are. If not, you might be reading too much into his actions; he might be getting quiet, silly or angry because of the topic of conversation or because she reminds him of a cousin of his or something else entirely different.
It sounds like it's something pretty obvious, though, if the other women notice it enough to feel uncomfortable. I wish I had better advice, but that's just...odd. If it's constant, then maybe it is time to let him go -- not because he needs to chase someone he finds more attractive but so he can learn some social graces that don't include turning into a fractious toddler around pretty women.
That's just a strange situation. I don't know that my husband even notices how other women look, let alone acting different around them.
By the way, you have a great writing voice. If he doesn't think you're sufficiently awesome, I am entirely sure you'd have no trouble finding a boyfriend who would. :)
IIN that my boyfriend completely changes around an attractive woman?
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Is he acting different because he finds them attractive? Has he actually come right out and said that? If so, he's behaving like kind of a jerk in the first place for bloviating to you about how attractive other women are. If not, you might be reading too much into his actions; he might be getting quiet, silly or angry because of the topic of conversation or because she reminds him of a cousin of his or something else entirely different.
It sounds like it's something pretty obvious, though, if the other women notice it enough to feel uncomfortable. I wish I had better advice, but that's just...odd. If it's constant, then maybe it is time to let him go -- not because he needs to chase someone he finds more attractive but so he can learn some social graces that don't include turning into a fractious toddler around pretty women.
That's just a strange situation. I don't know that my husband even notices how other women look, let alone acting different around them.
By the way, you have a great writing voice. If he doesn't think you're sufficiently awesome, I am entirely sure you'd have no trouble finding a boyfriend who would. :)