If you want advice other than "DUMP HIM" here it is. Be communicative. Sit down for a long serious discussion. Not just a little fight, or a "you're pissing me off" rant. If you really love this guy, you will be able to be 100% honest with him and tell him how much you are hurting. MAKE him see it from your point of view. Tell him you love him, would never want to hurt him, and wonder why he is hurting you. Ask him if how he feels about you. Tell him you see good in him, and want things to work out, but are afraid they can't without his effort. Then, finally, give him an ultimatum. Say "I love you, I want this to work, and I know you can do it. I trust you to respect me over the next period of time, and will do my very best to please and respect you. If for any reason, you are unable to do this, our relationship must end." And stick to your word. Best wishes!
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If you want advice other than "DUMP HIM" here it is. Be communicative. Sit down for a long serious discussion. Not just a little fight, or a "you're pissing me off" rant. If you really love this guy, you will be able to be 100% honest with him and tell him how much you are hurting. MAKE him see it from your point of view. Tell him you love him, would never want to hurt him, and wonder why he is hurting you. Ask him if how he feels about you. Tell him you see good in him, and want things to work out, but are afraid they can't without his effort. Then, finally, give him an ultimatum. Say "I love you, I want this to work, and I know you can do it. I trust you to respect me over the next period of time, and will do my very best to please and respect you. If for any reason, you are unable to do this, our relationship must end." And stick to your word. Best wishes!