Well, this is for other people too, but you're the first one.
I'm a stupid teenager. No, I'm not friggin' 14, I'm older than that, but still count as a teenager. I've had sex with him. I love him. And I'm stupid, I know that. I know it's not right for him to do that, I just don't know. I'm one of those people that are all for working things out, I mean, if he does it again and I catch him, people told me to threaten dumping him, or do the same things to him. It seems that he understands more once I do the same thing to him.
I really love him. Before all of this, he has been there for me. I mean, I was in a pretty fucked up relationship before him, and as friends he helped me learn to love myself. Then you know, we started dating.
I don't think I would do well single (more stupidity) because we slept together, and I'm just staring at him, knowing that we've made love and I would still love him.
I feel so fucking stupid, I took his virginity, and...I just have self esteem issues, everything will just go downhill.
I see so much good in him, and this stuff happens, and I am so torn, which is why I am asking for help.
I understand it's difficult and I understand that it hurts. Normally, I give people the advice wrapped in a comfort blanket and I didn't with you. If you wanted that, I'm sorry I didn't do that. You have to look back at my first reply, though. I said it because it's true and because I care; even if it wasn't a fluffy answer.
I wasn't expecting anyone too - I just want to know what to do, because I have no idea.
I hurt, but he said he will change. I don't know, I feel like I just need someone to tell me what to do, even though they can't. It's my choice, and I'm just sitting here, trying to believe he'll change. And if he doesn't, then I guess it's over.
I'd never tell you what to do. I'd never tell anyone what to do. What you said at the end of your last post is how I'd see things if I was in your position, though. I think you've already got the answer you wanted, but are struggling to accept it. Good luck. I mean that. :)
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Well, this is for other people too, but you're the first one.
I'm a stupid teenager. No, I'm not friggin' 14, I'm older than that, but still count as a teenager. I've had sex with him. I love him. And I'm stupid, I know that. I know it's not right for him to do that, I just don't know. I'm one of those people that are all for working things out, I mean, if he does it again and I catch him, people told me to threaten dumping him, or do the same things to him. It seems that he understands more once I do the same thing to him.
I really love him. Before all of this, he has been there for me. I mean, I was in a pretty fucked up relationship before him, and as friends he helped me learn to love myself. Then you know, we started dating.
I don't think I would do well single (more stupidity) because we slept together, and I'm just staring at him, knowing that we've made love and I would still love him.
I feel so fucking stupid, I took his virginity, and...I just have self esteem issues, everything will just go downhill.
I see so much good in him, and this stuff happens, and I am so torn, which is why I am asking for help.
I really don't know what to do.
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I understand it's difficult and I understand that it hurts. Normally, I give people the advice wrapped in a comfort blanket and I didn't with you. If you wanted that, I'm sorry I didn't do that. You have to look back at my first reply, though. I said it because it's true and because I care; even if it wasn't a fluffy answer.
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I wasn't expecting anyone too - I just want to know what to do, because I have no idea.
I hurt, but he said he will change. I don't know, I feel like I just need someone to tell me what to do, even though they can't. It's my choice, and I'm just sitting here, trying to believe he'll change. And if he doesn't, then I guess it's over.
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I'd never tell you what to do. I'd never tell anyone what to do. What you said at the end of your last post is how I'd see things if I was in your position, though. I think you've already got the answer you wanted, but are struggling to accept it. Good luck. I mean that. :)