Is it normal that my boyfriend can't be gentle?

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Well, my boyfriend is one rough bugger and I mean rough!
But we was talking today and he said that he didn't know how to be gentle or just have gentle loving sex... Just rough as hell near to rape sex. Is it normal not to know how to be gentle?

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  • NotFloydzie
    11 years ago | pl

    You just called him a bugger, though. I would rape you if you called me that too.

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  • Angel_in_a_Glass_Dress
    11 years ago | pl

    It depends. Do you WANT him to be gentle?

    You claim he "can't" be gentle because he doesn't know how to be.

    So... if he "can't" do something because he doesn't know how to do it, how did he ever figure out things like walking, reading, writing, speech or even using a toilet? O yeah, it's called learning.

    So clearly he CAN learn. The question is is he WILLING to learn?

    If his answer to that question is "I can't" then you know he's not willing. And then you have to decide if that's the kind of man you want between your legs.

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    • ZommBeee
      11 years ago | pl

      Not once was 'Can't' used. He wants to learn as well, I'm clearly asking is it normal not to know how to be gentle.
      No need to go anal over it.

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      • Angel_in_a_Glass_Dress
        11 years ago | pl

        "Not once was 'Can't' used"

        Really?

        *looks back up at the title*

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        • ZommBeee
          11 years ago | pl

          Okay the title yes, I should have woreded that better but other then that no. So again. Stop getting anal.

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          • Angel_in_a_Glass_Dress
            11 years ago | pl

            "Stop getting anal."

            How am *I* the one being anal?

            For replying based on what YOU wrote and not knowing - until you complained - that you didn't mean what you posted?

            I like that you think I'm a powerful mind reader but... your anger with me is rather misplaced.

            Being angry at someone else for *not* misreading your words when you didn't write what you really thought... is somewhat self-defeating.

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  • titsnball
    11 years ago | pl

    only because i am in charge ;)

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  • jermath35
    11 years ago | pl

    Maybe ur sexy as hell and he can't help but to fuck the shit out of u....

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  • titsnball
    11 years ago | pl

    I think it's totally normal, because it's either go hard or go home.

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