1. It was FREEZING.
2. He was coming home from a club and he just drove to mine (5mins) (he could have gone home in less than 5 mins)
3. He was in the car, he wasn't freezing and asking me to let him in because he needed to get warm.
4. i live with my parents they'd think we're insane
5. he woke me up! i was sleeping and I think it's normal that I GOT IN A MOOD!!
why are you people defending him? it makes me feel so sad...
I think 2 and 4 are definitely fair reasons for you to be mad at him - possibly 3 is as well. I don't think 5 is a good reason not to let him in, but on the flip side it is completely understandable and normal that you would be in a mood because you were woken up. I think if anything 1 is a reason why you *should* have let him in, because it's bound to be colder for him outside than it is for you. That's still 3-2 to you, though :P
Sorry for making you feel sad - I'm just considering all the options. It's impossible to make a judgement without a lot of information. I don't think he's a total arse like some other people are saying, but I certainly don't think you're in the wrong given that information. I think it's definitely an over-reaction for him to break up with you, although I guess it's understandable for it to be the trigger if he wasn't happy with your relationship already.
Thank you :) yeah we weren't in our best moment, I have to admit. We had had an argument 2 months before, we didn't speak for like a week. But we were doing pretty good I thought :| But, still, he hasn't spoken to me since that night. Not even on Facebook or phone. Which I find ridiculous. And I am not speaking to him first :|
Is it normal that my boyfriend broke up with me because of this?
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well, let me say:
1. It was FREEZING.
2. He was coming home from a club and he just drove to mine (5mins) (he could have gone home in less than 5 mins)
3. He was in the car, he wasn't freezing and asking me to let him in because he needed to get warm.
4. i live with my parents they'd think we're insane
5. he woke me up! i was sleeping and I think it's normal that I GOT IN A MOOD!!
why are you people defending him? it makes me feel so sad...
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I think 2 and 4 are definitely fair reasons for you to be mad at him - possibly 3 is as well. I don't think 5 is a good reason not to let him in, but on the flip side it is completely understandable and normal that you would be in a mood because you were woken up. I think if anything 1 is a reason why you *should* have let him in, because it's bound to be colder for him outside than it is for you. That's still 3-2 to you, though :P
Sorry for making you feel sad - I'm just considering all the options. It's impossible to make a judgement without a lot of information. I don't think he's a total arse like some other people are saying, but I certainly don't think you're in the wrong given that information. I think it's definitely an over-reaction for him to break up with you, although I guess it's understandable for it to be the trigger if he wasn't happy with your relationship already.
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Thank you :) yeah we weren't in our best moment, I have to admit. We had had an argument 2 months before, we didn't speak for like a week. But we were doing pretty good I thought :| But, still, he hasn't spoken to me since that night. Not even on Facebook or phone. Which I find ridiculous. And I am not speaking to him first :|