Perhaps he went through something he needed support from his partner with, and you ignored his plead for support? That, in my book, is a clear indication of a bad partner.
It depends how cold it really was. If it was really cold out (it was probably below freezing outside, what with it being the middle of winter), and I went to my girlfriend's house so I could come in and get warm because I had nowhere else to go, and she wouldn't let me in because she was so warm and cozy in bed and didn't want to get up, I would be very angry with her. It would make her seem very selfish and lazy.
It also depends on how far he had to travel to get to you. If he had to walk a mile or two in below freezing temperatures to see you, then he's got a case for being unhappy with you. If he lives very close to you, then he hasn't got a case.
1. It was FREEZING.
2. He was coming home from a club and he just drove to mine (5mins) (he could have gone home in less than 5 mins)
3. He was in the car, he wasn't freezing and asking me to let him in because he needed to get warm.
4. i live with my parents they'd think we're insane
5. he woke me up! i was sleeping and I think it's normal that I GOT IN A MOOD!!
why are you people defending him? it makes me feel so sad...
I think 2 and 4 are definitely fair reasons for you to be mad at him - possibly 3 is as well. I don't think 5 is a good reason not to let him in, but on the flip side it is completely understandable and normal that you would be in a mood because you were woken up. I think if anything 1 is a reason why you *should* have let him in, because it's bound to be colder for him outside than it is for you. That's still 3-2 to you, though :P
Sorry for making you feel sad - I'm just considering all the options. It's impossible to make a judgement without a lot of information. I don't think he's a total arse like some other people are saying, but I certainly don't think you're in the wrong given that information. I think it's definitely an over-reaction for him to break up with you, although I guess it's understandable for it to be the trigger if he wasn't happy with your relationship already.
Thank you :) yeah we weren't in our best moment, I have to admit. We had had an argument 2 months before, we didn't speak for like a week. But we were doing pretty good I thought :| But, still, he hasn't spoken to me since that night. Not even on Facebook or phone. Which I find ridiculous. And I am not speaking to him first :|
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Oh :/ But really, It was 4am! I could cheer him up the next day ._.
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It depends how cold it really was. If it was really cold out (it was probably below freezing outside, what with it being the middle of winter), and I went to my girlfriend's house so I could come in and get warm because I had nowhere else to go, and she wouldn't let me in because she was so warm and cozy in bed and didn't want to get up, I would be very angry with her. It would make her seem very selfish and lazy.
It also depends on how far he had to travel to get to you. If he had to walk a mile or two in below freezing temperatures to see you, then he's got a case for being unhappy with you. If he lives very close to you, then he hasn't got a case.
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well, let me say:
1. It was FREEZING.
2. He was coming home from a club and he just drove to mine (5mins) (he could have gone home in less than 5 mins)
3. He was in the car, he wasn't freezing and asking me to let him in because he needed to get warm.
4. i live with my parents they'd think we're insane
5. he woke me up! i was sleeping and I think it's normal that I GOT IN A MOOD!!
why are you people defending him? it makes me feel so sad...
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I think 2 and 4 are definitely fair reasons for you to be mad at him - possibly 3 is as well. I don't think 5 is a good reason not to let him in, but on the flip side it is completely understandable and normal that you would be in a mood because you were woken up. I think if anything 1 is a reason why you *should* have let him in, because it's bound to be colder for him outside than it is for you. That's still 3-2 to you, though :P
Sorry for making you feel sad - I'm just considering all the options. It's impossible to make a judgement without a lot of information. I don't think he's a total arse like some other people are saying, but I certainly don't think you're in the wrong given that information. I think it's definitely an over-reaction for him to break up with you, although I guess it's understandable for it to be the trigger if he wasn't happy with your relationship already.
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Thank you :) yeah we weren't in our best moment, I have to admit. We had had an argument 2 months before, we didn't speak for like a week. But we were doing pretty good I thought :| But, still, he hasn't spoken to me since that night. Not even on Facebook or phone. Which I find ridiculous. And I am not speaking to him first :|
If you really cared about him it wouldn't matter that it was 4am. At least I am like that.