I understand his worreies, but he need to grow up inside before he can be in a relationship. i know i have the same tendences but, since i get it the same type of treatment from my dad, the oversensitive and i can see how ugly and unattractive that is. So Im still working at it, but a now have these feelings in check.
Im 22 and it took me about 3 or 4 years to really start getting control of these feeling and now i almost never use a curse word or a be petty to the girl im with when she hurt my feelings, i may have i slip, be he need to get in thru his head the that there are two people's feeling here, not just his and if he really want to be "that guy". i know i dont anymore.
best of luck, and if it gets too bad leave him, he probably need to learn to get his head out of his ass the hard way then, like i did.
Is it normal that my boyfriend acts this way?
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I understand his worreies, but he need to grow up inside before he can be in a relationship. i know i have the same tendences but, since i get it the same type of treatment from my dad, the oversensitive and i can see how ugly and unattractive that is. So Im still working at it, but a now have these feelings in check.
Im 22 and it took me about 3 or 4 years to really start getting control of these feeling and now i almost never use a curse word or a be petty to the girl im with when she hurt my feelings, i may have i slip, be he need to get in thru his head the that there are two people's feeling here, not just his and if he really want to be "that guy". i know i dont anymore.
best of luck, and if it gets too bad leave him, he probably need to learn to get his head out of his ass the hard way then, like i did.